Please e-mail me direct at..... Troublentaken@msn.com ... thank you!

I am here because I am a young, smart, dedicated mother of 2 very smart loving kids. I have come to a point in my life where the man that I trusted with our lives just decided to leave us with nothing. It is sad because he controlled everything and could care less about me and our kids well being. I have been a stay at home mother and I do not have any unnecessary bills. All I have is rent, utilities, food, car insurance and very little money for anything else. I want to go back to school to make something of myself but there are other things that stand in my way. I need a job but no one here will take a chance on me because I havent worked and I have no experience. I need money for everyday living and it makes it harder when I want to work and go to school and then I need money for a babysitter that I can trust with my kids. I am just so stressed that I cannot provide the things that I need for my kids. I here all the time about people going into debt and well I dont want to do that to myself or my kids. I want to have some stability for themand myself but it seems like I am getting nowhere and well the money that I still have will not last long. I am not sure what I am asking for I just know that I need help. I want to find a job at home but I cant invest the little money that I have. I have sold alot of my things to make more money and well that in itself makes me sad. I just really need something to help me get by. I would really love it if this site is real and well I am not afraid to talk to someone that is real and not looking to add to the stresses that I have. I am just so afraid that my kids will have to see the harsh realities of. I want to give them a roof over there head but I can only afford a few more months and I really dont know what to do. I just dont want them to feel in secure. I want the simple things in life but no one is willing to give me a chance to prove myself to them. Life is hard but it seems to want to keep me down rather than letting me and my family prosper.

 I have a list of things that I "WISH" I could have but then again I am not to lazy to make my wishes come true. I just need some help to be stabel enough to give my kids a home.I live in a small apartment and well to better understand my situation I am pretty much living off of 1500 a month and my rent is more than half that amount. I cant get a deposit for another place and well where I live it is a really reasonable price. My landlord is really nice and understanding but he is also struggling and well with 2 kids and we dont go shopping alot. Me and my kids have all second hand things, we eat canned goods most of the time, and we just spend time together so the good thing is that my kids dont need the fancy things to make them happy. They do want the new things but they know that I cant give it to them because I dont have the money. I would love to give them the nicer things for their birthdays and holidays but I cant sacrifice the money in that way. I am just feel so inadequate at times. I want to give them extra things because they are smart and deserve them but everything is so pricey. We rarely go to mcdonalds and when we go we only get the dollar menu thing and we go where we can get free refills. I mean that is a good thing but to have to explain to my little ones that I cant do more because mommy dont have the resources really makes me depressed. They dont know the things that I have to struggle with and I hope they never know but they see it and ask questions and I have to try and tell them something else that is positive. It becomes torture at times when they see the things that others recieve and how others indulge in the luxuries of life.

ADDED this on May 10,2008

I am really looking forward to making a life with my kids but now I am trying to find some grants that I can apply for so that I can go back to school. I am having a hard time getting a job and finding needed help. I would really love it if people could help me financially but that is a dream in it self. I understand that people dont know if I am real or not but all I can say is that I am and if someone is generous enough to help me out they would be doing a great thing. I would be happy with 5 dollars I mean every little bit helps. I have really changed so much in my life to make a honest life with my kids and it hurts me that I cant give them the things that once had. They understand the situation a little but it still sucks for them because they are so young. I want to give them some security but here in hawaii it is quite difficult. I dont know what can help me but I just really dont want to go in to debt so that is why I am asking for help before we have to suffer more with those things. I am a open person and real as can be. I am not lying and well I hope that a decent person is willing to get to know me and my family enough to see that I am not scamming anyone. I really want grants for schools and I just dont know which ones are legit. But if anyone just wants to help me in monetary things that would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading this and I hope that there are generous people out there that would like to help me and my kids in our time of need. I know there are alot out there and i probaly dont have a really hard story but I just dont want my kids to have to suffer a moment of hardships. Please feel free to respond. Thank you again

Hello,

Well, i am a single mother of three beautifull children ages 2, 6, and 7. I am not working right now due to my lack of experience and flexable schedual. But I am trying to work that out. I often find me self struggling with food and gas. which I think is normal with alot of people these days. My main problem right now is i want to move but i dont have the swecurity deposit.i will have to write more later....................

after reading other peoples post i really dont feel i should be asking any one for help. i have alot more than most and consider my self very lucky. one should not ask for more than they know they need.

I am a 37 year old mother of two in need of financial help or advise.  I currently am married to a man that is an alcholic and cheater and have to stay in order to have food to eat on the table for my son who is 16.  I have recently had to make my 19 year old daughter move in with her father of whom she has only known for a few months due to not being able to afford to help her out.  I work more than 40 hours a day and still do not make enough to pay simple bills such as rent, car payment or daily grocery needs.  I am not asking for a hand out just a hand up.  I know there are others out there worse off than me, but If you can find it in your heart to advise me that would be great. 

Email: Dawniem32@hotmail.com

I'm loosing our home not job and not $$$ what can we do?

MY NAME IS JOHN AND I WAS LAID -OFF 02/2008 AND HAVE BEEN OUT LOOKING FOR WORK

EVERYDAY BUT HAVE HAD NO LUCK AT ALL I'M A UNION CONCRETE LABORER AND HAVE A

FAMILY AT HOME WITH YOUNG CHILDREN  I OWE 925.00 IN RENT AND HAVE GOTTEN A

FIVE DAY EVICTION NOTICE TODAY, IF SOMEONE COULD KEEP MY FAMILY FROM BEING

PUT ON THE STREET, HELP US PLEASE AND I CAN PUT YOU IN CONTACT WITH MY LANDLORD

MAKE THE CHECK OUT TO RLG. MANAGMENT MY NUMBER IS 773-507-3664

P.S AND I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A JOB IF POSSIBLE THAT WOULD BLESS MY FAMILY THANK YOU VERY MUCH

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My family and I are struggeling to pay our bills.  My husband and I both work but are bearly making ends meat.  We have two beautiful daughters age 4 and 14 months.  We were doing fine until a few months ago when we got screwed over by my husbands ex-wife, my step daughter told us that he step dad wanted her mom to get a job but she didn't want to a few weeks later we got a notice that they were reviewing my husbands child support obligation.  It went up to $105.30 a week because she doesn't work, even though her husband makes about $25/hr but his income doesn't count which isn't really fair. My husband only makes $10.46/hr and I make $8/hr after he pays his support that doesn't leave much money for anything else. If anyone can help us we would greatly appreciate it. Thank you and God Bless You.

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HI I am a mom of 3 children, one is autistic and he is home w/me 24/7 and i can't get out to work very hard to.  When I was working and I created alot of dept, now I have about 26,000.00 more to go and i am sure I can talk them down and have no money to offer to talk them down if my husband finds out i am sure that will be the end of our marriage.  He has already put out so much money and I can't ask him anymore, I don't have the heart to ask.  He already is ready for the funny farm!!!  I feel very bad for what I have done and i can't get anyone else to help me.  What can I do and how will I ever pay this dept down.  I tried everything.   Please someone out their have a heart and help me????   Forever thankful.    M&M