North Carolina

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Here since: Oct 8, 2006
38
Homemaker
Graham, North Carolina, USA
Languages: Engliah

I am a mother with 2 boys. One is handicap.I will do anything for my kids. They are my world.I am happy marry to a man that God has sent to me.I am on disbilty. Can't work no where.I am honest person. I have too many things happen to me in my pass. Now that I am writing a book about it. I hope that I will get it pulibish soon.

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STACYANN

Here since: Oct 4, 2006
Female, 38
Looking For Help For Income,Critically ill Mom of 4 children Looking for honest work at home,
Knightdale, North Carolina, USA
Languages: ENGLISH

Hi, I have a lot to add to update my Aid Page, I am now over 50+ face & brain surgery's ,I Just had another one,

Unfortunately Dr are running out of ideas. I have spent a lot of time in and out of the hospital , I am on home Intravenous Medications once aging, I have a port, , for the friend that do not know what that is , It is a tube with like a bobbin pin on to that the tube goes to my heart and the "bobbin" like on a sewing machine is under the skin in my case a left sub calving. I push a needle threw the skin and then I am ready to go, It Like I am Plugging my self to the wall, "LOL"

In the in of Feb Early March I have complications to cervical cancer,I had to have an emergency 9 hour surgery that unfortunately did not work, the Dr are to scared to the right surgery because of the bone infection and no Celia function in my face. There much more health wise,I do need Prayer over that However I am Very Thankfully for the Journey I have been blessed take, Please read the poem I wrote on my Blog,

"Simple Facts Of Life" sum it up how blessed to learn on my journey Always Keep you head high be Proud of who you are, Remember we are only Stuck if we allow are self to be stuck in the spot we allow our self to be,

May you Be Carried on An Angel Wings Always

StacyAnn

I am a mother of 4 and critically ill with having well over 45 + face & Brain surgery's, not to mention all the other surgery's and medical problems due to complications,
   The reason I am writing you is because I'm need some "Personalized" help in seeking a way That I can bring in a income to my family, I want to teach my children that it does not matter the situation that you keep on trying, I want to do Honest work at home that has no start up fees. I only get $350,00 a MT disability and no other help, So I need to find a job that I can work at home,.I have always ran my own company's . I had my own practice in Sports Medicine before I got sick then I use my Knowledge in Homeopathic Medicine, To make Herbal scent moist heat packs and eye pillow, I made natural Soaps and Body Oils, and I even Made whole made Chocolates. My 4 children as well as myself would take it the flee market every weekend and sell what we had made all week. Around that time is when all the brain surgery's started and 18 hrs a day of Intravenous medication, It was bit difficult hauling 4 children all my product and walking with in Iv tubes coming out my chest, what a site that was "lol" we managed for a while sadly the demand for he product became to great for me to make all by myself everyday in my kitchen,
That started me studying gemstones after brain surgery, I spent 2 years studying gemstones, I did sell high end jewelry on Ebay , but During a move we were robbed. "long story" they stole Everything we owned I do mean everything and the insurance did not cover excuse they found a loop hole as usual. Now I have no other income, Please Know that I'm not a Victim I am a Survivor & I am very blessed I have the privilege to be with my children as they grow up when they said I would not live this long "what do they know" "lol".
    I have learned many life lessons, I can't do much physically now but I do some kind of craft everyday with the younger children,We have done so many different craft. We draw paint, do clay, the favorite is making Jewelry but that is a treat because the pretty crystals are expensive, I can work on the Computer,
   I know the end and out of a how to run a company to having happy personal , they will do a better job, To satisfying the Hardest to Please customer, I keep my self up to date learning and studying the newest trend to the next big craft, I know how to do Advertising, I like being very creative, I know how to do import and export, In my journey, I have been blessed to learn many Life lesson along the way. I have been on the Top and I have been on the bottom. I will not give up and I will not ask for sympathy, I'm not different than anyone else, I just have a few Challenge but don't we all. The reason I won't sell on Ebay, Is because the market has changed and the fees are to high, There only a few ways to make money on Ebay now, One is to be a Huge company that is able to import the inventory, Or to lye, If I can't do it honest It's not happen.
       Oh my I can't believe I just told everyone all this, I guess it because I know if there an opportunity for me to become part of your team I would fill honored and privileged,
   Thank you for what you do and if you have any ideas, Please pass them my way.
        May you be Blessed 10 fold.
             Best Regards
                StacyAnn

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nativheart

Here since: Feb 1, 2006
Female, 50
student
UNC-Pembroke
Pembroke, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English, working on Spanish

I am currently a junior at UNCPembroke working on my BA in Criminal Justice with minors in Spanish and Sociology. Yes, you can teach old dogs new tricks! I am loving my classes and the instructors. I am a single mom and have 5 children, of which 3 still live at home. I am in desperate need of funds so I might be able to get a place to live... out of the projects. I finally got a car, making payments but I am living on only 300.00 a month right now. The oldest goes to Robeson Community College. The second to her is registering for the fall. The last is enrolled in the extension school for his HS Diploma. There has been a lot of struggle for me and my kids to try to get to school and work and appointments and get the bills paid on time. I know there are so many others worse off than we are, although our living standard is below poverty level. Because we are in school all of our assistance has been cut out, so I am making it on my weekend job. Our life was disrupted four years ago when I found out my then husband was molesting my girls, and pretty much brainwashed my son, so we were forced to change the route of our future. It's really a long sad story but we have tried to rise up from that tragedy and move on. I hope funding will come soon. I have applied for all the scholarships I can because a house is not all I need. I also need money for school because costs are rising and I am one of many low income people trying to get an education and make a better life for my family. My kids are doing ok but are not mentally stable enough to make it on their own. They are still going through therapy. Can someone please help us get ahead????

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lshst1

Here since: Feb 24, 2006
Female, 48
pre-law-victim advocate--unemployed
bryson city , North Carolina, USA
Languages: english some french

i have been disabled since i turned 30 in 1989. I lost my dad, husband, and almost myself and daughter during a difficult delivery due to doctor's mistakes. I needed a C-section and did not get it. It caused so much damage that i still am having surgeries from that time.

I can not have more children and lost my husband cause he was angry and could not accept that. He wanted a boy. He went out one night got really messed up on drugs and alcohol and wrecked his step-van over an embankment of 1500 feet or more. It was publicized on tv and newspapers all weekend. He layed 6 hours till the road manager who was fixing the new highway found him on 'Sunday morning early about 7. He died in the hospital at 10 am.

My dad died 8 months before at Christmas time due to high blood presssure, diabetes, heart failures. He was 53 years of age. He did get to hold his first and only granddaughter my Courtney.

I have no family the husband's family blame me and refused to have anything to do with us after the accident. I was taking care of our baby and they blamed me. What a joke. I have never met such mean selfish people.
Except my own 2 brothers and 1 sister who also do not believe I am ill with this terribly painful fibromyalgia , arthritis conditions ++++-I have struggled alone to raise Courtney and she is so special. she has a IQ of over 150--genius level.

I am hoping her education and dream of working with computers and becoming a teacher come through.
I have very little to help her with / she needs to learn to drive but this car is too dangerous.

I wish social security would not have taken our money away like they did when she turned 16. This has made no sense to me when that was all we had to live on. Life has been terrible since. She is 19 and She has tried so hard to have extra little jobs that has at least kept us from starving.

OUr government needs to seriously look at what they are doing to citizens of the US. when they take these programs and have these rules that hurt us and barely even allows us to live. I have felt i live in some poor country everone else on tv or whatever are trying to save. What about us --People who want to live as responsible lively adults but when disablity happens i was throwed away worse than a wild animal.

I just hope someone can help our life to become better so my daughter doesn't have to keep suffering because she has no one --no family to speak of that shows any love or care.

I pray the right person will read this and generously either donates or loans us a fair uplifting new beginning.

Please e-mail me Love Lynette Helsel (Mock)

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lilangel

Here since: Oct 30, 2005
Female, 38
HOUSEWIFE disable
North Carolina, USA
Languages: english

YES,I am wondering if anyone could help me please.I want to open a bussiness (store) and was wondering if there was grant's or funding I could get that I would not have to repay.This has been my dream and I found this site and hope someone could give me some info.lilangel

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tatumsix

Here since: Aug 7, 2007
Male, 33
disabled
cary, North Carolina, USA
Languages: english

PLEASE HELP ME & MY FAMILY WE NEE HELP WITH RENT & SOME OTHER STUFF ANY HELP WE WILL GREATFULL

Our store startes a little over two & a half years ago i had just started at lowes home improvement while setting up the new store steel bars crushed my hand which caused nerve damage and from that it caused C.R.P.S. also know as R.S.D. whitch after 6 months put me in a wheelchair. Now both arms & legs are always in pain, i have high blood pressure and have to take 13 types of pills a day and deal with the side affects, and there is no side cure. I also have to deal with workmans comp whitch causes a lot of stress. Now i get only 60% of my check whitch is about 240 a week witch at first helped with my wife's pay we were making it then we had to get the handicap apartment that they only have them on the bottom floor and the bottom are always the bigger two bedroom witch helps when you have a one and a half year old baby. But they cost more and we can just pay it. Then my wife had a brake down from everthang going on and while she was out they let her go it has taken a while for her to get a job she just got one but we are so far behind we have been barely making rent and it has been late so it cost 60$ more whitch don't help somethang happen and our last rent check bounced over 1 dollar and we don't have the money to pay the rent this month and they are going to evicte us and we need help bad please help use we have tried to get help but because i am on workmans comp we can't and being on it for the so long i cant use it as income and they send it late all the time also we have our credit cards maxed just to live. People say when you are on workmans comp they will take care of you, i have been rated 100% disabled and all workmans comp have to do is give me 60% of what i was making at the time of injury for the rest of my life with no increase ever the pay stays the same no mater what the cost of liven is they will also not pay for a handicap van and they can deni treatment or delay it for over a year or more and then its not a sure thang i tryed to buy a van myself so i could get around my self but they cost 50,000 or more i could't get one they also have a 10 year of payments if anyone could help us pay our bills or help with getting a handicap van please help us if we can get help to catch up we could make it Thanks for the ear and Thanks for the help if you can Thanks for our family PS. PLEASE HELP CHANGE THE WORKMANS COMP LAW THEY WERE WROTE IN THE 1920 AND ARE STILL THE SAME EVEN THOUGH TIMES HAVE CHANGED JUST WRITE YOUR CONGRESSMAN THANKS

Update

We lost our place to live and luckly my mom let use move in only thang is that me my wife and 2 year old live in a 10x9 room and all of us are sleeping on a ful bed and it is very hard for me to get around and all our stuff is in storage and it is so hard to try to pay for storage and other bills and to top it off the wheelchair lift i had to get around broke off our car . i dont want to be negative so this is all i will say right now and if you can find it in your heart PLEASE HELP US WITH MONEY TO PAY BILLS TO GET A NEW LIFT AND MUCH MORE EVEN IF IT IS JUST A PENNY OR A FRENDLY WORDS

THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS

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Kristie

Here since: Jun 10, 2006
Female, 24
n/a
n/a
lansing, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

I am a sweet and smart mother of 1 looking for financial aid to further my Education. I would like to be a LPN or an RN. Unfortunatly until I get a pell grant or some financial aid I will not be able to obtain my goals of being the first person in my family to graduate from college or furthering my education to make my daughter and my own life better. Thanks, Kristie

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Micro-Loan Lenders (SBA) for North Carolina

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Neuse River Development Authority, Inc.
233 Middle Street 2rd Floor
New Bern, NC 28563
Executive Director: Donald T. Stewart
Microloan Contact: Barbara Brown
E-mail: bbrown@nrda.org
Phone: 252-638-6724 Ext. 3032 Fax: 252-638-1819
Service Area: Carteret, Craven, Duplin, Greene, Jones, Johnston, Lenoir, Onslow, Pamlico and Wayne counties
Website: http://www.eccog.org/

Self-Help Ventures Fund
301 West Main Street P.O. Box 3619
Durham, NC 27701
Executive Director: Martin Eakes
Microloan Contact: Annie Scorza
E-mail: bob@self-help.org
Phone: 919-956-4400 Fax: 919-956-4600
Service Area: Statewide excluding Watauga, Avery, Mitchell, and Yancey counties
Website: http://www.self-help.org/index.asp

W.A.M.Y. Community Action
152 Southgate Drive, Suite 2 P.O. Box 2688
Boone, NC 28607
Executive Director: Dr. James Jordan
Microloan Contact: Dave Lindsley
E-mail: wamyloan@boone.net
Phone: 828-264-2421 Fax: 828-264-0952
Service Area: Watauga, Avery, Mitchell, and Yancey counties
Website: http://www.wamyca.org

Back to The MicroLoan Program

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Divorced Mother of Three

Mother of Three doing well at this time and helping others to succeed. I did well last semester with three A's, one B, and one C. I also got a D but have decided to retake the class this summer. I want to thank everyone for their prayers and please continue to pray, because we all need it.

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Gerry Keith

Here since: Feb 12, 2007
Male, 58
Disabled - Cancer
Gerry
Fuquay Varina, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

Pancreatitic Cancer has taken almost everything I ever had. I AM NOT A QUIETER and with equipment I have received I am about ready to begin working again.

It isn't easy forcing yourself when you are in pain 24/7 to be independent but I am beginning to do it but I still need help with 1 thing.

I need transportation desperately so I can work. I have an old work van I can sell for about $500 but it needs $1000 of work to pass inspection as now the steering went out on me. Even if it was working the MPG is only about 7 miles per gallon and because of the cost of gas it costs me over $10 just to go to my doctor 12 miles away once a week.

I will not ask for any dollar amount, just what anyone can spare so I can sell the van and get something that is dependable and cheap on gas. So please help me get transportation so I can be independent and work. There is no public transportation where I live and I have made it this far and with your help I WILL SUCCEED.

Gerry

Email Me And I will Send PayPal Donation Information. Please only Use PayPal

helping.gerry@yahoo.com

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DentalChallenge

Here since: Feb 28, 2007
Female, 37
North Carolina, USA

**UPdate**
Still no help! www.AidPage.com is full of needy people and no giving people.

Hello, I am a 36 year old woman with what one doctor called the worst teeth he had ever seen. My problem is that my upper jaw grew side ways taking my face with it.

This can only be correct through Orthodontics and Surgery at the tune of $45,000. Of course, this is way out of my budget. Since I was not raised to feel sorry for myself I learned to hide my smile and go on with my life. All in all, I don't see myself as a person with really bad teeth unless I look in a mirror or at a picture of myself.

Every once in a while I get hopeful that I can have a nice smile. I hear about smile makeovers and think, "Maybe, someone can give me one." It would look very good for the people who volunteer to help me.

I cannot count how many times I have looked at Before and After pics on websites and think, "God, I wish I had the teeth before. They are so much better than mine." I am offering a challenge to an Orthodontist and an Oral Surgeon: Is anyone willing to tackle a career Orthodontics challenge?

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Help 4 Christmas THAT WAS A SCAM AND LIE

Hello my name is hollie i just got out of the hospital in north carolina i tried to kill myself!! I try everyday to live my life and its hard to not try to cut myself i dont even have the money to pay for my medicine! I just want to be that GREAT MOTHER and wife i have a 8 year old boy ethan an 10 year old kelsi and a 1 year old elicia im 27 years old my birthday is december 18 and all i want for christmas is a nice dinner and home and a few gifts for my children! my phone number is 704-662-8828 my email addy is holliannkevin@windstream.net i have pictures of my kids and other family to talk with if you would like. I really would do whatever work i could to pay everyone back please find it in your heart to help me and my children THANK YOU Hollie Stofer

GUESS WHAT I WAS SENT A CHECK IN THE MAIL FOR HELP AND IT WAS KNOW GOOD I THOUGHT OH ITS SO GREAT ILL HAVE A GREAT CHRISTMAS MY HUSBAND LOST HIS JOB AND TODAY WHICH IS DECEMBER 1 I AM SO UPSET CRIING AS I WRITE THIS THE GUYS EMAIL ADDRESS IS donaldgilbert145@yahoo.com DONALD GILBERT IS HIS NAM NOW WE HAVE KNOW MONEY FOR RENT FOOD OR BILL CHISTAMS IS RUINED I FEEL LIKE I WANT TO CURL UP AND DIE PLEASE HELP ME THE CHCK WAS FOR 4,800.00 MY BANK PAID IT TO HIM AND NOW I AM $4,841.00 IN THE NEGATIVE IN MY ACCOUNT HE HAS HURT MYSLEF AND MY KIDS PLEASE PLEASE I AM BEGGING FOR HELP....CRING HOLLIE STOFER

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MouthMonster

Here since: Jan 6, 2007
Female, 50
Server
Charlotte, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

I am single 49 year old woman with four grown children. I am currently working at Waffle House 40-50 hours a week, and desperately need a used car. Doesn't have to be anything fancy just one that will run!!! My current method of transportation is about to end, and I do not live on a bus route. Even a dollar could make a difference. I can accept money with paypal and stormpay. Thank you so much for reading!!!

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tytrope

Here since: Apr 25, 2006
Female, 38
aspiring small business owner
USA
Languages: english

Hello Everyone,

I am in search of any Valid & Useful info regarding; eligibility, grant writing, proposal and deadlines for 2006/2007. I am an Aspiring small business owner. I have Strong Customer Relations Skills, Vast Creativity, and Willingness to Learn and Adapt. I am the first to admit that I do not know everything but I have a desire to succeed. (I am not in the position to apply for a loan and do not desire to if I can obtain a grant.) I am a beginner at this, so some things are difficult to understand and a little sketchy to me. I am interested in; Legitimate Grants (free of charge- no gimmicks) Grants for Women, Minorities, Small Business Owners and how to effectually market products to existing companies as well.

Any info, ideas/suggestions or encouragement will be sincerely appreciated!

Thank you for reading :)

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calliegirl43

Here since: Feb 5, 2007
Female, 38
63 and on disability
Southern Pines, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

I am in need of dental work but cannot afford to pay a dentist to have my work done. My disability check is just over the amount for me to get Medicaid. I am written to two dentist for help but have not heard back from them. I have had several surgeries and a lot of medicines. My teeth are breaking into the gums and are painful. My doctor has told me that I need to get them fixed but I cannot afford their high prices. I know poison is entering my system and I am afraid of my health worsening. I worked hard all of my life and raised three children with financial support from their dad. I am a nice looking woman but getting embaraced by dental problems. I hope someone will read this and offer some assistance as where I can go to have my teeth fixed.

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devidedDi

Here since: Dec 5, 2006
Female, 44
Mother/Wife
Rocky Point, North Carolina, USA

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Dobguy1

Here since: May 8, 2007
Male, 44
Electrician no more though
Durham , North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

I used to be a strong fun loving guy, worked hard and played hard, I guess I played too hard and got menengitis, I manage to fuction somewhat but my eyesight was messed up from the menengitis and my medical bills ran above 100,000. I have a 4 year old boy who doesnt know how much his dad suffers but I try hard to not let him know. Considering everything I have managed to provide for him, Im in horrible debt but I figure Im still alive which they didnt think would happen. I thank god for that, Im not really expecting much from this, any contributions would help us but just saying hi would help too. You can donate and recieve a bumper sticker which is shown in my photo section, hopefully you can donate 5.00 to cover the cost for the sticker. Thanx Dave

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funds for school

Hello i'm a local recording artist and have been for the past ten years. I write and produce my own origional recordings. I've recorded and produced 3 solo albums so far, performed at the world famous Apollo Theater in N.Y.C , performed on a local TV show in my home town and sell my albums out of my trunk.I'm trying very hard to make a living from this i have a family to support. I've been from one dead end job to another and all proved to be total let downs. I realize that my dreams wont happen overnight and it took along time for me to accept that. However i strongly believe that dreams come true. I have a strong will to suceed and a passion for music that will never die.I'm asking whom ever this may concern for help in getting into an audio recording & production school to further my knowledge of the music industry which will allow me to get a better job, support my family and help others with the tools i have aquired. i have applied for a pell grant and i'm applying for student loans. Thank You & may God continue to bless you, Kenneth E Battle Jr Please visit my web site

www.ncorecords.com

The Audio Recording Technology Institute www.audiocareers.com

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crissi31021

Here since: May 8, 2007
Female, 30
Military housewife
Ft. Bragg, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

Hello there! I am 29 and married to a wonderful man. I am currently a stay at home mother . I have two children ages 4 and 12. My husband is serving in the United States Army and we just moved to Ft. Bragg, North Carolina. My husband is 27 and joined the military right out of high school. He was active for 4 yrs., then went National Guard. He went to Iraq and returned June of 2006. He realized how much he missed his military career and re-enlisted. He is going back to Iraq in Oct. of this year. This was our first time moving and living on our own. We started with basically nothing. We had to get what we could and it has put us a little behind on some of our bills. I am looking for someone to help us get back on our feet. He worries so much about our bills and I want to clear things up so he does not have to worry about that and his upcoming deployment. He is a wonderful guy and LOVES his country and his job. One thing that got us behind is when he re-enlisted full time Army they dropped his rank, which meant a cut in pay. We are sincerely doing the best we can and would greatly appreciate anything that will help. If anyone can help please contact me at crissi31021@yahoo.com. GOD BLESS you all.

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MAKE SOME EXTRA MONEY ON THE SIDE!!!

YOULL GET A CHECK ONCE A MONTH FOR SURFING THE WEB AND REFERRING OTHERS TO THIS SITE www.agloco.com/r/BBCH4356(u might have to copy and paste this link)
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One feature I really like is that the early people who help build the company get greater rewards (which is why I am telling all of you about it). Click on this link to go directly to AGLOCO www.agloco.com/r/BBCH4356 and join my network. YOU MIGHT HAVE TO COPY AND PASTE THAT LINK.

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lisad

Here since: Aug 24, 2005
Female, 41
LOOKING FOR WORK
Ellerbe, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

I am a single mother of 2 who moved here to get away from an abusive relationship and just need help getting started with a place to live and a dependable car so I can get a job and support myself and my girls.

PLEASE,SOMEBODY HELP US.

If you would like to talk to my landlord,you can e-mail me at michelle_dasher_2005@yahoo.com and i'll give you her phone # and you will know that we are going to be evicted,Lights are going to be cut off.

I have a chance to get a job but need the money to get the clothes to wear to work.It's a waitress job and I need black pants ans shoes,and white dress shirts.

PLEASE,I AM BEGGING FOR THE SAKE OF MY CHILDREN,SOMEONE HELP US!!!!!!!!

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Ms

Hi, My name is Karrah I am 27, and am a recently single mom of two as of June 1st, 2006. I have left my abusive husband of eight years, five of those unmarried, and am in need of assistance. Quite frankly, I have no idea what I'm doing one minute to the next when it comes to asking for assistance. I am looking for grants for living expenses, a car, clothing for my children and myself. If any body has any information about 100% free grant opprotunites and they are not just trying to get me to visit a website and pay money something i dont have, to see what i'm asking to see. That would be great. I have been a housewife for the past four years and have not looked for a job just yet because of my two and four year olds, fear of me leaving and the unstableness of our situation. I have pride and this is a very diffucult for me to do, asking for help, but in the end my children are the most important people more important then my pride, and I'm asking anybody who can help to help me, locate this information, or instruct me on where and what I need to do. I know there is grants out there and I would qualify for them but, I dont have the money to buy a book. I promise to make a pledge, when I get stable enough to afford it. I pray daily for God's help in this matter and know with his guidance we will survive. He led me to this website, and I have been looking for this website since the moment I left my husband. So, please help with any information you may have, however small, it is greatly appreciated and god bless you for taking the time to at least read my pledge.

Thank you and God Bless,

Karrah

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dodgegirl

Here since: May 27, 2007
Female, 46
disable
Roper, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

Well, my husband had a stroke at home, I had to call the ambulance, to take my husband to the hospital, when the doctor came to talk to me, he told me my husband, went in a coma. I went in to the back and his body was jumping and his eyes were close, the doctor said, he had a anerursym to the brain, that cause the stroke. I had to sign paper to do surgery on on is head, and when he came out of surgery, he was in a coma, this all happen Dec.27, 98. It was 5 days that he was in a coma, he came out of the coma, and he ask for me, I went in there, and he was talking and I could not understand what he was sayng. The doctor came in the room, and told me, my husband had to learn how to talk, eat, walk. Well, my husband is like a child and he is in a wheelchair and he can not walk...he is paralyzed on is left side. I took care of him for 2 years, and then my dad past away Dec.24, 1999, and that was very hard on me to handle.I was close to my dad, my mom left when I was 5 years olds, my dad raise me and my grandmom,my sister and brother went to live with other family, but when we got older, then we all live toghter. I was living in Elizabeth City, and in 2000 I moved to Roper to live near my mom and my stepdad. I bought me a piece a land and a trailer. I took care of my husband and then I had a Aid come in and help me, one day I was gone and he wheeled hisself in the kitchen and got a knife and the Aid had to get it from him, she took he to a mental place, which I have been going to Mental Health, for anxiety and depression, back to him. So, the people from Mental Health, wanted to put him in a Mental place in Greenville, N.C., so they did and there is were he stay I guess a month and then they wanted to send him home, but I told them, that I could not handle him anymore. So, he is in a Rest Home, I have not seen him in 7 years, our marrigae was not that good, he cheated on me. She was a friend of mine, she got kick out where she was living, so she did not have anywhere to put her stuff, so I said we got plenty of room , you can bring your thing here and we will hold them for her tell you find a place to go, and this was 1991, so my husband was seening her behind my back, but I find out and I lefted him, for about a month and the I went back to him. So, I moved on with my life, and it has been hard, I don't get that much money, and it takes everything I got to pay my bills. Dec. 4, 2006, I got in a car wreck, I lost my car, I had a car behind me and I was going to make a left hand turn and they past me on the left hand side, they near hit the back of my car, they hit, from the back door to the front door, took my mirror off. All they got was failing to reduce speed, they did not get hurt, but I did, my back and my neck is mess up,and my right eye is messed up and my left leg, from my hip to my knee is messed up, I have to go to a Chiropractic, but that is not helping, I have had a Migraine since May 3, 2007 and it want go away. I got a lawyer, but it is taking awhile, I got to go to my doctor for my shoulder, I had surgery awhile back, but when I got in the car wreck, it did something to it, I will find out May 31, 2007. And the bad part, I had to buy a car, that I have to start it with a scewdriver, not all the time but most of the time and I got lot of doctor I have to go to.I did not get the value of my car, so I bought a car for $ 600.00 and it is 1993 and I had a 1997 and it was a good car. Well, there is more of this story, but this is about all I am going to write.....all I got to say I am having a rough time. And with my credit I can't go and get a car, which I need a car to get back and forth to my doctors. I do have a boyfriend, I took care of him for 2 years, when he did not have money coming in, I payed for is doctor bills and his medicine, and that put me behind....he is disable and he lost is job, but he got is job back, but he is out on medicain, and I know he gets good money, because he worked at Ford Planet, my dad work there too. I got behind on my bills when he did not have money coming in, I had to play the light company back $800.00 dollars back and I did it myself, it was hard, because I was paying to light bills. Now he gets payed from Ford and I make him give me $400.00 a month and I get SSI and SS, but is is not alot of money, I get $ 643.00 a month, I have the light bill, trailor paymont, Ins on my car, house phone, celluar phone which all my doctor call me on, water bill, my internet...that is cheap, but putting gas in my car is not cheap, which I got alot of doctor to go to, because of the car wreak. My boyfriend, don't think he needs to get me anymore money, he gets payed every week, and in June he is going on a fishing trip, that is $200.00 dollars and you know he is going to be spending more, I ask him at the begin of this month, I need his help on bill, because, I missed up and had to pay the bank $400.00 dollars back, thats because I did not have the amount of money in the bank and I needed to pay my light bill and my trailor payment and I forgot about my Ins. they take out. But what makes me mad, he goes and spends alot of money and I know it is his money, but I have gave him a place to live, and I hate to ask for help, then we get in a arguement. He tell me that it is all my doing, that he is not the one, that screw up my checking account, I know I screw it up, but it is had sometime, to keep everything straight, he wants me to help with his stuff and I can't, it is hard to keep up with mine. I feel like he is using me, I have kick him out, some many time, but he will not leave and I don't want to call the law. He has not hit me, I got a bad temp. and he know that. He is nice to everybody else and help them. I just ask him for money and I got to hear alot of mess. Right now I need my light bill and trailor payment payed and help getting a use car, that I can depend on.I got 4 dog's I call my baby's, I do not have any kids and can't have any, but I had my dogs before my husband got sick....I got a male he is 15 years old and I had to take him to the Vet, it cost me $ 300.00 dollars and I am still paying on that. I don't like to ask for help, but I need help, I can't get a loan, can't afford it ,I am 4 months behind on my trailor payment.....So, I don't know if a loan is good for me, but I don't know what to do. This is my story.... I hope you read it and tell me what I can do? Thank you. And I write poems....I got 4 poems in the International Library of Poetry, I wish I can go somewhere when my poems....I got 18 poems that I have wrote.....here is one of my poems....

My Dad

Dad i miss you.

You never turn your back on me.

You helped me if I got in trouble.

Dad I miss you.

I know you our watching over me.

I kept my promise, I still got your dog, ''Champ''.

Dad I miss you.

I miss your smile and your laughing.

I miss you calling me everyday.

Dad I miss you.

I miss kissing the top of your head, and saying ''I love you''.

Dad I miss you.

Someday I will see you again.

I will give you a big hug and tell you I love you and miss you.

Dad I miss you.

hope you enjoy my poems, thats all for right now.

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swinton78

Here since: May 21, 2007
Male, 29
Charlotte, North Carolina, USA

Loving father and husband.

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Cassie Minor

Here since: Jun 27, 2007
Female, 36
Registered Dental Hygienist
North Carolina Missions of Mercy
Various, North Carolina, USA
Languages: English, Spanish (in clinics)

NCMOM provides free dental care to those with limited or no other options for care.

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NavyMom

Here since: Jul 23, 2007
Female, 42
unemployed
North Carolina, USA
Languages: English

I lost my job last year. I lost the home we had and move in with my sister hoping that together that we could get back on our feet together. My sister fell last year and broke every bone in her foot so as you see things have not gone as well as we had hoped. We are three months behined on the rent,about $2000,and $1800 on the electric bill. I'm looking for a job but not much around here. My sister found a job,but I've had no luck so far. She is paying everything she gets to the landlord,but that only keeps us from getting further behind on the rent. So the electric bill gets further behind. We are not looking for a hand out,but a HAND UP! If anyone can help we would greatly appreciated My daughter has joined the Navy and leaves in Sept. and I don'thave the money to buy the things she need to go.

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About 4 weeks ago my girlfriend and I found out that we have a wonderful new life on the way. I currently am working full time with freelance in my spare time. With all of our credit card debts and student loans we have, it feels like there is no way we are gonna be able to get through this financially. I really do not know what this site is about but I am praying that this may be a way to get help or directed to resources that may want to help. I am also a web designer and would be love to build a website for anyone that can help.
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Mommy in need

Here since: Nov 8, 2006
Female, 30
sale clerk
autryville, North Carolina, USA
Languages: english

I work and go to school. I'm trying to make a good life for my little girl. I thank God she is too small to know mommy is having trouble paying bills. I hope she can understand no birthday party in a couple of weeks. I have about 3 months of school left and will have a degree in medical billing and hopefully then start physical therapy aide program. I was able to get grant money for school. But right now I need help getting things cuaght up. Me being sick has put me about $2500 behind on my bills. It's to the point now where I question what is the most important thing to pay. I am back to work but still have to have surgery, which I will be paid while I'm out for that. I just need help getting things caught up now. Any prayers would be helpful if nothing else can be done to help.

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