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mrmom
Here since: Sep 25, 2006
Male, 46
disabled
elkton, Maryland, USA
Languages: english
braves31
Here since: Sep 18, 2007
Male, 38
manager
cass lake, Minnesota, USA
Languages: english
I am the guy who will stand in line last to eat so as to make sure everyone else won't be hungry
I am the guy who will stop to make sure you're alright if your car is broken down on the highway
I am the guy who will try to fix your car and ask for nothing in return. Even in blistering cold wheather
I am the guy who will shovel you out by hand after a big winter storm if you're unable to do it yourself
I am the guy who will drive you to the place you need to be in an emergency cause you don't have a car
I am the guy who will go hundereds of miles out of my way to get you and your kids home safe
I am the guy who will move you into another place because you have no help and leave before you can pay me
I am the guy who will dive off a high bridge to save your daughter after she fell over the rail
I am the guy who will push you and your kids 9 blocks to the gas pump cause you didn't have a gas can
I am the guy who will help you and your grandparent, who is in a wheelchair, get over a small obstacle
I am the guy who will mow your lawn for free because I can see you are barely getting around now
I am the guy who will put myself in harms way when a dog attacks you and your  children. Just so you're  safe
In my lifetime these are but a few of things I have cared to do while I was given this life. I guess its my way of paying back the prayers. Help his children whenever I can.
I guess if you want to know about someone their deeds are a good place to start. If our paths should ever cross may you be in good health.Thanks for getting to know a little about me.


stevecaresalso
Here since: Nov 24, 2006
Male, 44
unemployed
lake monroe, Florida, USA

 

I appreciate your time and I promise that you  will not be dissapointed  viewing my page.

I coached Special Olympics for 4 years until I had the accident. I am  raising my 5 year old daughter. I have worked an many projects including assisting in a wildlife reservation to treat & release injured animals.

I started a local group that encourages Students to stay abstinant  until marriage and away from illegal drugs. I enjoy cartoons  and reading with my Daughter and she would love to continue Karate/Gymnastics but there is no more money. She recieved her first Yellow belt recently Nov. 17, 2006. I am so proud of her and she tells everyone she prays for her Daddy everyday to get well.

She is my little fireball and is not bashful  at meeting people.

In 2002 I had an accident and I was making a very good living. I had been married since 1998. After our resoueces ran out and many garage sales , my wife left me for another man. She married him and then he got sick with ms and met a nother boyfriend that worked on the road, therefore i am raising my 5 year old  alone. I have no money coming in and after selling heirlooms and old antiques 2 1/2 years later I finally lost my house. I am in chroonic pain and am still having trouble finding pain management Physicians.A family of a mopther who had a home allowed us to move in her but I am still tryign to get custody. I have no income. I have seen different doctors and now finnally I am waiting for my disability. I was a Professional Clown and I am a  Licensed Minister.
I need $1,500 for the custody fees to have peace of mind, because my Daughter Mom has told me several times her Mom yells at her and left her alone before. I also need a small loan till my disability back pay comes in would be appreciated so I can keep thelights on and the therent paid. I am willing to sign a contract to pay back every penny and give references of my integrity. I coached special olympics for 4 years and was a Games Director. I did work for D.C.F. as an independent provider with Developmental services, but as my condition gets worse weekly. I had so much trouble getting the right medical care, because my accident happened at work , therefore I couldn't use my own insurance and would've if i could've because my Doctor was  super busy the day of my forst visit after the accident. Unfortuanately I had a smaller accident and had a fractured wrist seeeing the same doctor, so he thought it was a routine visit apparently, because when I went back in Dec. He said he would order an M.R.I and continue treating me. He later wrote me a letter explaining the mistake, because he failed to make any notes pertaining to my back and neck. Worker's Comp screwed me and totally stopped all my benefits.That's when my wife left me to make it own my own.  I was still in alotof Pain and I didn't know the extent of the damage to my Back and neck. I have had trouble since. If anyone knows where I can go for help or has any ideas. I am willing to share my profits when my inventions get recognition if anyone can help me financially get thses inventions off the ground. I recently was selected to be published in "The International Of Who's Who In Poetry. And will be featered with one of my poems being read by a professional voice major on a 33 track (Tract for each Poet)three volume CD poetry Collection. These poems I hope ii can do something with are from the past.
Anyway if somone can help me I would appreciated. i am frustrated at the system and if it weren't for the lord( Who ministerds to me throughHis word daily and fills me with his peace of eternal life ) I would have ended my life, but my obligation to my daughter has kept me going.

The reason I need help is to try to get my life back on track. when you are down it is hard to go forth and concentrate. I have the peace of the lord to keep me from going insane, but that doesn't pay the bills.

 

I used to colenteer alot doing charity work as a professional Clown and I would like to get back in it in some way, but the pain is dso severe i can't concentrate. Getting the right medical help has really been difficult.

 

I am a veteren who served overseas during the beriut bombings in 1984 I was in Turkey near Sirera at the time. It took 8 months to get a Scheduled M.R.I. whenWorkmans comp dropped me. and then we didn't get a good reading so we had to be rescheduled, so I went to a private facility to get the M.R.I.which took another few months.

I am still having trouble getting help.

I would love to get my Daughter in Some type of acting and voice lessons, because she has a beautiful voice.

If only I was directed in the right way maybe I could get my life on track. I  haveexhausted All my resources.

My friend said he would be willing to put up some rare brand new still in the box Nascar dicast Cars 1:24 and 1:18 scale. He is really sick as well and doesn't have the energy to sell them, but will if he can get a good price and is willing to help me then.

I mean they are rare 1st Edition Nascar Dicast. He has some rare beautiful Porcelain Dolls He'd sell to help me, that was His Mom's before she passee away. He doesn't have the time and I don't know where to start. You have to have a bank account to sell on e-bay and we don't have enough money now to open a bank account.

I really don't know where to go for assistence. I came across this site after years of frustration and pain typing in help for single dads. Again any ideas.

You have an opportunity to get rewarded for your efforts. we can put up collateral and show you what each car is worth  as wellas the dolls. Any body out there care; We will do our part to make you feel safe to help; we are praying you do your part.

I don't want to bore you anymore. Have a terrific day.

To inspire you, I must tell you this true story:

 On  Halloween while we visited houses my Daughter who is so cool and amazing. She showed her gratite when she got candy by sharing a bit of wisdom with the candy givers.

Here it goes; I hope it doesn't offend anyone, b ut it is the truth what she shared.

she wouold say at first"trick or treat, then after she recieved candy she would say"The devilm is the trickster but jesus is my treat ,Thank you for giving me something good to eat. and some would actually give her more candy. Yelp we have plenty of sweets, just Pray that opportunities present thermselves so we can again make a difference in our community.

If you have no money but are willing to share prayer request; Me and my daughter would be honored to pray for you asa well.

 Any ideas would be appreciated  as to where we can start to recieve assistence on my inventions or anyone we can borrow money with the colaterral we mentioned above.

God bless you for at least reading this. I pray you help the one you feel led to help and if It is not me, then God has another plan and I thank you for your time. Please surrender your life to Jesus, You'll be glad you did.He'll give you a future and  an endless hope.   

May the Lord Jesus Christ  bless you with His peace and unconditional Love this holiday season..

businesslady-1
Here since: Mar 29, 2008
Female, 49
work at home travel agent
atlanta, ga
Languages: english, spanish

I have a GROUND FLOOR GIANT - Georgia Launch Energy De-regulation.

This is a great opportunity to make and save money on your utilities. 

Check it out now:  http://msdlcraig.igniteinc.biz

Thanks and God Bless!!

there is no help

there is no such thing as help anymore just "HOPE"

Taalik
Here since: Apr 22, 2008
Male, 37
Mail Clerk, Independent Associate for Pre-Paid Legal Services.
Newark, New Jersey
Languages: English

Good afternoon, I`m a single Father living in New Jersey. I came across this sight because I need cash assistance. I applied for section 8 in Elizabeth, New Jersey back in 1999/2000. My son and I lived in Elizabeth untill October of 2007. I left my apartment in October of 2007 because the current landlord sent me a letter from a Lawyer saying that I have to vacant my apartment . No reason was given. I left, came into contact with a friend from some twenty years ago. She invited my son and I to her apartment until I get back on my feet. I moved my items in November of 2007, everything was sweet. Now, we all know that things don`t stay the same, my friend founded this house which was to much for me to handle, so I had to back out, she went on to move into the house, Stress started to form because I`m about to be homeless if I don`t get no help. I called the city of Elizabeth to see the status of my case, don`t you know that they sent the letter to the wrong address. The Lady says to me Mr. Harris, we were lookin for you since, September of 2007. To make a long story short, I qualify for a two bedroom apartment. My goal is to move in my apartment by June of 2008. I`m asking for cash assistance to help with the security and first months rent. I have email if anyone is willing to help support me. I`m trying to set example that we as Men can take care of our kids too. Thank you for allowing me to vent my worries to you.

DadofTwoBoys
Here since: Mar 26, 2007
Male, 38
Banking
New York, New York, USA
Languages: English and English

I would like to be closer to my two boys, my 3 year old lives in New Jersey with his Mom, my 10 year old lives in PA with his Mom. I would like help to clean up my credit, then i can maybe get a three family home for all of us to be closer to each other. I provide for my kids and I believe that Mothers belongs with the children and a father needs to be there for each andf every step a child takes. The  price of gas and tolls in this area is expensive, i would like some help from a credit repair person, and anything to help me get closer to my kids. I have always helped others and will continue to "pay it forward". God Bless all.

PAIZON
Here since: Nov 17, 2007
Male, 30
ORDER PICKER
Languages: ENGLISH

In need of help this holiday season with back owed rent and bills.

i am a struggling single father of 4 children, i work to provide for my family, but sometimes it is just not enough.

i dont  have the training or edjucation to obtain a better paying job ,but im doing all i can. between the rent, mounting bills, the day care,  the cost of everyday living period, is so overwhelming ,trying to do it  on my own i dont know where else to turn.

 im unable to give my children a christmas let alone thanksgiving. SOMEONE  PLZ HELP!

nyaka34
Here since: Apr 9, 2008
Female, 34
Learning and Sharing
lexington, kentucky
Languages: english
Single father needs help soon to be ex is doing her best to ruin me

Right now I am in the process of getting divorced from my wife, the problem is that she had been cheating on me and running up bills for the last 8 months. Now I did get majority custody of our 1 yr old son, but just trying to keep up with all the bill is driving me nuts. We had a vw restoration business going, and as soon as she decided to leave, she cut off the website and phone line to it. I restarted the business under a different name and number again this January, but now havent been able to get into the shop because she reported me to the California BAR and they want 200 bucks for a permit. On top of that when she left she cleaned out the bank accounts for the cool sum of 12,000. and left me with .99 cents in the account exactly. She has told me that she is going to do her best to ruin me and right now she is achieving her goal. I cant get a loan due to the bills she ran up, so this is sort of my last hurrah. I was on the internet looking to see what kind of miracle I could find and saw this link. So for anybody that has ever been through what Im going through right now, you know how it is when you are so desparate that your willing to do just about anything. I have tried to reason with my ex and explain to her that the better I do in life the better it is for our son, but she doesnt care, already moved in with her new guy and is having the time of her life. Well any questions I will answer and will appreciate any kind of help anybody can give me. Thanks and God Bless You.

 

Daniel

Drew2
Here since: Sep 11, 2007
Male, 22
Front desk agent
Delaware, USA
jay7
Here since: Mar 12, 2007
38
dad and son
Here since: Apr 18, 2007
Male, 37
sales
vernon hills, Illinois, USA
Languages: english ans spanish
 I don't need free money I just need a loan. I was not working for 3 months and all my bills, including the rent got behind. I'm a single father who is trying his hard to make a better life for my son. If some one out there have a way to give me a loan for at least 3.000.00 dollars, and let me make payments on it. it will save my son from moving out of his school before finishing his year. I will give all the information necessary to make it legal and make a zero risk for the person who will help me out. Thanks
abdulusa
Here since: Mar 20, 2008
Male, 41
Real Estate agent / loan officer
miami, fl
Languages: English and Spanish
Janoo
Here since: Feb 24, 2008
Stevieboy
Here since: Mar 12, 2008
Customer Service
Silver Spring, MD
Languages: English

Hello,

My name is Steve.

I'm a single father who has a straight "A" student daughter, and I've recently lost my job.

I'm also in the midst of losing my home.

I'm in dire need of $ 1400.00, to avaoid this.

I'd be willing to go without lights and gas. But I just cant lose my place. It's not fair to my daughter who just goes to school and does as expected. Please help.

Thanks...scampbell0041@comcast.net

keith2
Here since: Mar 5, 2008
Male, 39
retired
ny, us
Languages: english
mercury5
Here since: Mar 25, 2008
Male, 36
unemployed
sydney, nsw
Languages: english

6mnts ago i was involved in a hit and run accident which left me seriously injured and left for dead as a reult of this i lost 3 of my front teeth smashed out and as ive had a few back missing teeth for a while after losing my front ones i cant eat proply let alone smile at any one i feel its hard to go in public anymore as its hard to speak or look anyone in the face.i would really apreciate some help as im on newstart now as i cant work from the injuries i could make payments but no one seems to have any sort of payment plans can someone plz help me? my email is slymon2007@hotmail.com.au

freedom08
Here since: Mar 21, 2008
Female, 56
Independent Business Owner
Jacksonville, FL
Languages: English
Single dad with 11 year old girl and 8 year old boy

I am a single dad with 2 kids ages 8 and 11. I have recently been divorced and have custody of both kids wich is great. I have been laid off from work and have moved my kids and I into my parents house. My home has been forclosed on due to financial strains throughout the divorce proceedings. We are trying to get back on our feet. I have started taking the kids to church every week and we are very gratetfull for the people and the help we have met there, and I think it is great that the kids have taken to it as well. I am a very pridefull person and I don't like to ask for help, but I am also learning that at times we all need a little help from time to time. I have some things I need help to take care of so my kids and I can move forward with our lives. I have taken on about 1500 dollars in medical bills that my health insurance did not cover and I also have some utility bills that total up to 550 dollars. Not to mention 1500 dollars for an attorney.

I have to admit that it seems a bit ridiculous for me to ask for help here as I don,t believe I know anyone who reads this web site. I have prayed and prayed about what to do to get things caught up and I stumbled across this web page about some people in the same or similar situation as myself. I would greatly appreciate any help or advice that would be encouraging or helpfull.

Thankyou and God bless.

Threedales
Here since: Apr 15, 2008
Male, 28
Student
N. Charleston, SC
Languages: English

Hello. My name is Adam and I just came across this page and have read some of the posts on here. I have to say for the longest time, I thought I was alone on this single dad endeavor. Most single dads know my struggle so I will begin by saying that I love my little boys more than I can explain. I started off as a young man with a girlfriend and went on eventually to have a child with this woman. Her and I later decided to get married, only to have another little boy. I was raised by nothing but women so having two boys was more of a blessing than you know. My marriage eventually crumbled and as a result, both of my nice cars were reposessed, my house went into foreclosure, and all of my other debt(personal loans, utilities, etc.) built up against me and damaged my credit so profoundly that I could not get a car or an apartment anywhere. Luckily, by the grace of God, I was able to get accepted into a low income apt. complex in an area where crime, violence, and drugs are way more existent than what I would care for my boys to be around. At this point, I had been a single dad for about 7 years and I was just turning 28 years old. Since that very profound turning point in my life I have tried to go to college and get whatever grant money from school that I could get so my boys and I could survive while recieving no help from their mother but, no matter what I recieved, it was never enough. I have tried to work but could not find a job that was condusive to my single parent lifestyle due to no childcare. I take being a father very seriously because I am raising the future men of this country. I am no more of a perfect father than any other man but my intentions for them are. I give credit to any man that would break from the stereotype that has plagued us for centuries because of other non-existent fathers like my own. I am currently searching for a way to clean my credit and clear my debt so that I can create a prosperous future for my little boys that they may become the future example for other men. My boys are my life and for my life I will give what it takes to see them smile and one day see them hold their head high for the father they have. Whomever you are, thank you for taking the time to read the brief story of my struggle. Don't forget, "We are the men of the world that set the example for all other men".

anthonyl
Here since: Dec 19, 2007
Male, 44
odd jobs
Languages: english

    Hi , I pray every day and yes i love Jesus. I go in to life helping people and working hard. things just haven't worked out for me. I'm single and a father of to wonderful little girls. The problem is i'm broke i'm losing my home , car , and my faith. I'm the type of person that will help any one,and now i need help and know one is there for me.I walk around smiling for my girls. I thank god every day for them.I"M SORRY TO ASK but i need HELP(please)my phone will be off thursday 402-210-8981

 

the worst good luck
Here since: Nov 15, 2007
Male, 37
sales
Languages: ENGLISH
SO, YOU WANT TO KNOW MY STORY? SOMEDAY IT WILL BE A BEST SELLER. I HAVE THE WORST GOOD LUCK. HOW DO YOU FIGURE? WELL, IF ALL THE BAD THINGS HAD NOT HAPPENED, THE GOOD THINGS THAT I AM THANKFUL FOR MIGHT NOT BE. I AM A SINGLE DAD, RESENTLY WIDOWED IN THE LAST THREE YEARS. I HAVE THREE GIRLS THAT I HAVE FROM PREVIOUS RELATIONS THAT LIVE WITH ME. MY WIFE, WHO I SHARED NO CHILDEN WITH HAD 5 OF HER OWN, 4 OF WHICH ARE STILL OVERSEAS. THEY ARE STUCK THEIR BECAUSE I HAVE RUN OUT OF MONEY TO HELP THEM. THEIR MOTHER DIED OF BREAST CANCER BEFORE WE FINISHED THEIR VISAS. THEY HAVE NEVER BEEN TO THE US, AND UNTIL WE HAD HER GREEN CARD BEFORE SHE DIED, THEY HAD NOT SEEN HER IN 8 YEARS. I TRULY BELIEVE THAT SHE NEGLECTED HER HEALTH TO THE VERY END BECAUSE SHE DID NOT WANT TO BURDEN ME ANY MORE THAN WHAT WAS GOING ON IN MY LIFE WITH THE PROBLEMS WITH THE KIDS I ALREADY HAD WITH MY GIRLS' MOTHER HERE. I PAY CHILD SUPPORT AND MEDICAL AND I HAVE MY GIRLS WITH ME!!!. i CANT AFFORD TO PAY THE COURTS TO FIX THAT BECASE I OWE THEM MONEY.i AM BEHIND ON MY TAXES BECAUSE I NEED EVERY DIME TO SUPPORT THE ONES OVER THERE AND TO KEEP A ROOF OVER OUR HEADS HERE. WHEN YOU ARE A DAD, THEY AUTOMATICALLY CALL YOU A DEADBEAT IF THE MOTHER SAYS SO. MY CREDIT REPORT IS ALL MESSED UP DO TO THE BILLS AND THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT I DONT OWE! I AM ASKING FOR HELP BECUASE I AM AT THE END OF MY ROPE. I WORK EVERYDAY AND MAKE OKAY MONEY, BUT THE PAST DOGS WHATEVER FINACIAL SUCCESS I HAVE.IF I HAD SOME MONEY THAT WASN'T ALREADY SPENT BEFORE IT CAME I COULD MAKE IT WORK. RIGHT NOW MY SITUATION IS THIS, I CANT CHOOSE BETWEEN THEM OVER THERE AND MY GIRLS HERE. IT WAS HER DYING WISH TO SEE THEM HERE. THEY WOULDN'T EVEN LET THEM COME TO HER FUNERAL BECAUSE IMMAGRATION WAS AFRAID THEY WOULD STAY. I AM STRUGGLING TO DO THE RIGHT THING, BUT WITHOUT SOME HELP FROM SOMEWHERE I DONT KNOW WHAT I WILL DO. i PROMISE THAT ANY HELP GIVEN WILL BE GIVEN BACK DOUBLE TO SOMEONE ELSE WHEN I GET ON MY FEET AGAIN. THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR ANY HELP YOU GIVE.
RSD1
Here since: Feb 18, 2008
Male, 40
un-employed
Monroeville, Indiana
Languages: english

I have recently fell on some hard times, in February of 2007 I fell and broke both of my knee's and had to have a double knee surgery. While re-habbing in a nursing home the job I had for 18 years went away the factory closed and my job went over seas. I have spent all the money I had put back including my retirement. I have no income while I am trying to re-hab myself because I no longer have insurance so it is very hard to return to the work force with 2 bad knee's! I'm at the end of my rope I have no clue where my are my daughters next meal may come from! I have made to much money in the past they tell me for any kind of assaintance from the State so I ask you what should I do or can you help us?

jesdesign
Here since: Apr 8, 2008
Male, 40
painter
milwaukee, wi
Languages: english

I'm a divorced man with the custody of my three kids. The wife left town with the boyfriend, I had just graduate trade school in Texas and came back to be with my kids. At which time the wife left, thinking no big deal I'll raise the kids. I had a in out of state the paid well at first, then I started having car problems. Lost the job, at the time the kids and me where living in a friends basement. He also had three kids,things got rough with the friend and the kids and where put out. I had some money in the bank and looked for an apartment, but the wife had a very large ultilites bills that had vto be paid before anybody would let us in. Now the money gone we where in a homeless shelter for two montyhs then a hotel room for four months and now in a apartment for the last five years. But now the school loan, car payment to rebuild my credit, and the cost to feed, clothes the kids when i can, is too much to handle. I NEED MONEY!!! to pay off my student loans and money for a down payment on a house, and money too start my own business so my kid fully understand that no matter how hard life gets if you work at it you will get it. So please help me get the funds to change my life totally around so my kids can believe in me again.

 

the ewin
Here since: Apr 6, 2008

Im 25 years old and in desperate need of money for my 2 children.I have been looking for work but time is runnning out , if something doesnt happen soon I will lose my apartment and car. Being a single father, I dont know what to do. I just cant seem to find any work right now. So if any one with a big heart could help me, then God bless your soul.

william s
Here since: Mar 27, 2008
Male, 28
janitor
tampa, florida
Languages: english

I dont know if anyone will read this but im at the end of my rope. it all started a year ago, i had a very good job as a salesman for a window company. the contruction came to a stop in our area of florida. so the company had a mass laoff and i was one of the unfortunate ones to loose my job. i ended up having to let my new truck go back and had to get a old beater so i could make it around. after no luck of finding work in tampa i decided to pack everything up and move to north carolina. i stayed with my sister and found a job 4 monthes after starting i ecieved a call from my mom in florida and was told that my son had been diagnosed with a blood platelet disorder so once again i packed up everything and moved back to florida so i could be with my son. in the midst of all this i got two tickets and without the money to pay them i had my liscence suspended well about a month ago i was driving back home from a part time job i found and got pulled over because of a blown brake light. i just knew i was going to jail but i actually got lucky for once and it was a very understanding officer. he still had to sight me  but i didnt have to take the trip to jail. just had my court hearing for driving on a suspended on tuesday where i plead guilty and the good judge gave me a 200 dollar court fine instead of jail. so now im struggleing i have one ticket paid and another 225 dollar ticket that needs paid to reinstate my lisence plus 200 court fine to stay out of jail as well as rent and all the utilitys plus all th doctor bills for my son that are piling up. and now after 2 years of seperation my wife has filed for divorce so now i have to figure out a way to get a lawyer so i dont loose parental rights of my son and belive she is using all my downfalls against me. ive never begged for anything in my life and everything ive ever had i worked very hard for. but now i need some help, anything would help so if you can find it in your heart to help i would be forever greatfull.

longwolf76
Here since: Feb 17, 2008
Male, 31
supervisior
kalamazoo, michigan
Languages: engish
fred008
Here since: Feb 26, 2008
Male, 57
Professiona
shelby, north carolina
Languages: England
rocco 1
Here since: Apr 11, 2008
Male, 29
ssi
bristol, rhode island
Languages: english

i HAVE 2 Kids, i am on disability. i need a liver transplant, and am 2 months behind on my rent. anything will help, thank you.

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