My name is Felicia Rock, a social worker and prospective grad student who resides in Snohomish County.  I have lived and worked here for over two years now, and have enjoyed much of what the county has to offer.

So why do I write?  After working at my job with f homeless families in transitional housing for close to a year, I felt it was time to get some more education to balance out my experience in the social work field.  I applied, and was accepted, for advanced standing at Eastern Washington University’s School of Social Work, one of the better programs in Washington state.  I will even be able to continue working and living in Snohomish County while attending school.  Financial aid is in place for the year and a half long program.  There is just one complication:  Federal aid does not cover the seminar I need to begin my post-undergraduate education.  I was informed of this two weeks ago, after several days of communication with the university.  It is a six credit 2 week class that begins at the end of this coming August.  I cannot start spring quarter without attending this seminar.  I am respectfully requesting sponsorship for this class in any amount up to the $1700 needed for tuition and books for this summer seminar.  I have tried all the conventional means, and those options are unavailable to me as well.

By beginning graduate school now, I feel that I will gain even more skills and knowledge to continue to aid the disenfranchised of this community, and later on a more global scale.  Thank you for your time and consideration.

I'm looking for any resources that will help me either fund my last year of my B.A. or that I may be able to use to help me pay for my M.S.W  in 2008.

I am a 24 year old female with a graduate degree in Social Work. I have two jobs working in child welfare and mental health to get by on the basic needs of life. I have always been a hard worker and a good citizen including working 3 jobs to get through college. I am always helping others and trying to improve the child welfare system as well as trying to figure out who I am and what I want in life. I am trying to buy a home and am having little luck b/c I work for a low salary and do not have enough money for a down payment. If I recieve help with a down payment I will pay it forward when I am older to help someone like me- someone who has always done the right thing and worked as hard as possible but doesn't make enough to own a home!

Hello. I am a 28 yr, single mother of two small children. I recently left an emotionally/mentally abusive, alcoholic husband in Illinois. I came home to California to visit my parents and decided to stay when the neighbor from across the street informed me of some horrible news. It seems that back when my husband and I lived with my parents, he came home with our oldest son one afternoon, and was so drunk, he could barely get our son out of the carseat from the back of the car. My husband has put our children in danger too many times to count, and I am not going to be a bad mother anymore and allow it to happen. I need to keep my children safe and secure.

My husband and his parents moved us to Illinois about 18 months ago. I left California, naively thinking that the promises my husband gave would prove to make our life/marriage/family better. He said he would go to school, attend counseling and that it would be cheaper and less stressful to live there. We were only "moving" to Illinois because there was a house waiting for us to live in. After he got into school, and I got a job, we would move across the river and into Iowa. My Parents, friends and relatives warned me about leaving. They believed there was something sinister behind it all. I tried to calm them and thought that I was doing something that would benefit my family. That was all I wanted. I wanted a clean, sober husband, happy kids and the prospect of saving money to eventually return to California to buy a home. None of this was to materialize, and I soon realized that I had been duped and lured into the middle of nowhere with no help to get away.

I found out he was drinking a little after six months of being there. For those that don't know, there is a law that keeps parents from leaving a state after the children have met the residency requirements. I found out the hard way, by repeated boasting from him and his parents of "Good Luck, you're stuck here" and "You can't go anywhere its against the law".

My husband, Zach, has attempted suicide. He has crashed our car after drinking and driving. He has repeatedly gotten drunk and fallen asleep while watching our kids, while I was working. He spent our savings on drugs. He firmly believes that he is a good father. He refuses to go to AA because "they're a bunch of old people with worse problems, and I don't believe in God". He stopped taking his prescribed medication because "He can do this on his own".

I stupidly stayed with him for over 5 years. I grew up in an alcoholic family. I didn't have a father (he died when I was 16 of a drug overdose). I truly believed that if I supported him enough, loved him enough, that he would be good and my children would have a father I never had. I realize, and its extremely sad and hard for me, that I have done a great disservice to my children and myself. I have entered into counseling, along with my oldest son, who is 4 years old. I am trying to make things right. I am trying to do the right and healthy thing.

My credit is ruined. We used credit cards to live on when money got tight. Things were not better or cheaper in Illinois. We were still living hand-to-mouth. I graduated from a technical college and became a medical assistant. I am a former United States Marine. I have always been the provider for my family. My husband refused to get a job, as it was "too stressful". While I went to college, I was pregnant with our second, and working full time.

I should never have moved. I should never have stayed with him. I should never have brought children into such a horrible mess, but I have them, and I love them dearly, and wouldn't change it for the world.

I am asking for help. I have NO money. I am going back to school to earn a BA in Social Work. My parents have already given what money they have, but it is not enough.

I have a court date for April 2, 2007. I have not been served, and have only a couple days left to answer back in Illinois. I need an Illinois lawyer immediately. There are two that I have talked to, one wants $1500 and the other wants $5000. The only things of value that I own is a 94 dodge minivan and my wedding ring.

Please. If you could help me, you would be an angel of mercy. I am an honest person, I am hard working. I am smart and talented. I am optimistic and do NOT want to believe that nice people finish last.

I am reaching out. Please, can anyone help me?

I am a 28 yr old, white female. I was born in California.

I come from an alcoholic family, but my mother did her best with raising two kids on her own. My biological father tried to kill her when I was 2 years old. She got away. He died when I was 16 of a drug overdose. She later fell for an alcoholic a-hole who did nothing but abuse her and free load off of her. I do not blame my mother for what has transpired in life. She held up well with the cards life dealt her. She never let me feel unwanted, unloved or ashamed of who I was, or where I came from.

In actuality, my childhood hardships strengthened who I am. I moved out when I was 18, after being the first and only member of my immediate or extended family to graduate high school. I pulled a 3.86 GPA. I was among the top 100 of my class. I had dreams and aspirations of college and more.

Since I came from a poor family, I didn't have money to pay for college. So, I joined the Marine Corps. I signed an 8 year contract and became a supply clerk. I earned the GI Bill to fund my tuition. I thoroughly enjoyed my service to my country. I would do it again in a heart beat. I was honorably discharged after 5 years of active duty (3 years inactive to remain) right before they sent my entire unit over to Iraq. When 9/11 hit, we were all in the warehouse watching the little black and white TV on the Staff Sergeants desk. I was ready and willing to fight back at those who so horrifically hurt us. I never got the chance. When it came time for re-enlistment, there were no spaces left in my job for me to re-up.

I had met my husband through the Marines. We were in the same unit. I had never truly fallen in love before and I'm not sure if I will again. I gave my all to my marriage. I have since learned, through counseling and Alanon, that I have a co-dependant nature and that's why I stayed as long as I did. I believed I could help him change, not change him. I truly, sincerely believe in the good of people and I had the mindset of so be it. I cannot think this way anymore. I do still believe there is good in people, I just can't keep giving and giving when its not healthy. I need to be the mother my wonderful boys deserve. I need to break the cycle and show them how to be normal, healthy, well-adjusted men. I have a strong will, patience overflowing, and enough love to get me through...however, that doesn't fund a lawyer. I will do whatever it takes to make life better for my kids. I am secondary, though I realize they need me.

I went to a technical college and attained an A.A.S degree in Medical Assisting. I went to school and worked full time while I was pregnant. I have a drive that keeps me going. I had our second son on a Thursday and was back to school and work the following Monday. There is no rest for the weary. I will continue to work hard because I fervently hope that one day, it will pay off.

I am going back to school to get my B.A. in Social Work. I want to help children and families get help out of bad situations. I feel it is one of the ways I can give back to society.

I truly want to be a good, honest person. I truly feel that I have always tried to be. I have made mistakes in my life and I want to learn from them and do better in the future.

If you ever have questions, please let me know. I am open. Thank you for reading.

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