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Onoclio
Here since: Oct 6, 2006
Female, 39
Pregnant and finished in job, Please help!!
United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: English

Hi

 

I am a big believer in diversity, am a non-judgemental person and respect everyones views and comments.  I respect all people regardless of age, race and religion. 

I so wish that I could help so many people out there that need help like myself.

I believe in living each day as your last as you never know what may happen tommorrow.

Please read my aidpage and leave your comments or any advice that you may be able to offer.

Many thanks, kind regards. Onoclio xx

 

 

 

HollyPaws
Here since: Sep 5, 2007
Female, 38
Dorset, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: English
My name is Holly i'm 80% Colly and 20% German Shepard. I live with my family in Dorset, England. I was given to my mum as a pressent one christmas from my dad, that's why my mum called me Holly. I have one blue eye and one brown eye. And am mainly black and white in color.I love playing with my ball, going for walks, putting my head out of the car window, having my belly rubbed, hugs and kisses, my family and people, and i love trying to eat the hoover. I have a great personality. Unfortunately i have cushings diesease which is where i produce excessive amounts of cortisol. This can have harmful effects on other organs and on the ability of the body to regulate itself. I am on medication for this everyday and have to have blood tests every 3-6 months which is all very expensive and my family are struggling to afford it and need your help. Financially things are really bad for my family at the moment. If my family can not get any financial help with my medication then i may lose them. I love my family VERY much and do not want to leave them, so please  if you are able to help and would like to then please make a donation through PayPal. To do this please leave me a message and i will write back to you with my email address which you will need. Please help.Thank you.
maria7
Here since: Apr 17, 2007
Female, 46
unemployed
belfast, ireland, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: english

Hi, my name is Maria and i am a single parent of one beautiful daughter. The past few years have been absolutely dreadful and i have had nothing but bad luck. I have lost my home and had to go into sheltered housing which was full of drug addicts and drunks and it really did my daughter no good at all. I have found accomadation now but i cannot afford to pay the rent so i will probably be homeles again soon. As well as that i have got divorced, lost my job because of the housing problem and i see no way out of this awful mess. If i could only get a job i would not ask for help, but i cannot find any work and now i face eviction from my home. I feel so in despair and i know that there are other people much worse off than myself. If anyone can guide me in the right direction and possibly tell me how to go about rebuiding my life and how to get financial help i would be forever in their debt. I would help someone in my potition if i had the means and if i ever get out of this rut, i will prove it for sure. PLEASE PLEASE help me..

Tanya Hide
Here since: Jul 29, 2007
Female, 22
Mother and Student
Near London, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: English
I don't know if anyone out there will read this, or if they do I doubt anyone will care but i am letting out this cry of help in the hope that i might get lucky and somebody will understand what im going through...
I am a young single mother and bringing up my son alone, at the same time i am doing a home study degree to try and improve our prospects.  This sounds rediculous but the reason I am doing the course at home is that since i breastfed my son I have lost my breasts completely, I am prone to panic attacks ever since and it really gets me down so i don't go out very much. I'm a total exhibitionist at heart but now I feel as if i have lost all feminity and part of my personality went along with my breasts.  I am aware that there are many girls out there going through the same thing but a lot of them want larger breasts so they can model or go into porn - I just want to feel like me again.  I know this all seems so petty but I ask guys out there a question - if when you had a child your 'manhood' shrunk by 75% I'm sure you would feel just as distraught as i do about my chest - only this is more visible to the outside world.  My son and I live off very little money and I do feel so selfish for wanting to spend so much money on myself - but I feel like this operation would help both of us as no child needs a depressed mother.  I have had councilling and was approved for the operation on the NHS but my local authority doesn't have the funds for another 6 years, I know I can't wait that long... If anybody out there can help me, I would be forever in their debt - I am willing to find many ways of thanking you - you just let me know what it would take and Im sure we can come to some sort of agreement.  People reading this - please do not ridicule or berate me - I am genuinely serious about how much this gets me down and I'm not just trying to get a free tit job so I can prance around like some airhead - I am an intelligent hardworking girl who is just stuck in a rut and desperate to feel like herself again, I do a lot of charity work in my spare time and am working hard to fix my financial future - just right now Im rather stuck.  If you are still reading this and haven't judged me too harshly, then thank-you, even if you can't help xx
HELP FAMILY AVOID EVICTION

I will pledge £200 of my own money if others can help find £800 to avoid eviction.  Our landlord has said that if we pay half of our arrears, it will halt court proceedings to repossess the house. my husband is recuperating from a knee operation and is unable to work for 6 months, and with two small kids, I cannot afford the childcare if I went to work.  Any amount will help, and even if the pledge does not reach it's target, please contact me with any support you can give me.  I will pay back all monies loaned to me although it may be a small amount each month until my husband is back at work, and am willing to sign an agreement to that effect.

becks
Here since: Jul 26, 2007
Female, 30
house wife
birmingham, solihull, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: english

hi im a 30 year old single mum ov 3. Iv been single for 3 years now bringing up my children im finding life really hard at the moment trying 2 make ends meet !! and they dont !! i just dont no what else 2 do i have tryed being a working girl but i hated it it made me feel cheap and nasty but i just want 2 be able 2 buy my kids stuff xx   

born to suffer
Here since: Mar 19, 2007
Female, 44
carer
london, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: english,shona

I am an adult learner seeeking assistance to go back to university Last year  In 2006 I succesfully completed my first year as  an undergraduate  studying  Hons Social Studies  . When  I was about to start my second year I was told to pay £6000 for my fees instead of £1200.I took a gap year hoping to raise enough money to pay but its all in vain .I tried applying to charities that I thought may be willing to fund my education but I was not succesful. I cant apply for a student  loan because I am not eligible.Please ,I am pleading to  individuals who may help me with any amount of money.I AM DESPERATE ,I want to go back this september to proceed with my second year but its only possible if I get help from you.

Mike.Lee
Here since: May 11, 2006
Male, 24
Student
london, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: English

I am oversea student in UK.  I have to paid high education fees for my uinversity, which is 11000GBP per year.

I have to pay next year education fees on 3th July 2006........  I do not know what I need to write here......

Comment: single mother of three in...
Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "I pledge 200 £ pounds GBP but only if enough people pledge any amount to reach a target total amount of 1000 £ pounds GBP."

single mother of three in need of any financial help. just got out of prison and came to a small town where i dont know anyone. want to leave and take my kids somewhere thats not so drug infested and where i can work.
He needs yr help
Here since: Jan 30, 2007
Female, 41
Driver
London, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Please can someone help, I don't know which way to turn.

I am a single mother of five in the Uk, eldest son at University. My ex husband had a breakdown a couple of years ago and has recently been diagnosed with a degenerative heart disease, this means the money he was paying me has become less and less and his money does not even cover my food bill.

Although I get state help it does not cover my bills and my rent has recently been increased too. I have sold everything that I have of any value and have taken temp jobs but at 46 competition for jobs is great where I live and I feel I am viewed as being over the hill, although I continue to apply and attend interviews. I have no family nearby and my ex does the bare minimum as he is in a new relationship so I am always running around for my children and trying to hold it all together. As if things were not bad enough, the tax office tell me they have overpaid me by £743 pounds and are demanding I pay it back, I have appealed but it failed. They blind you with science and I dont know how they expect the average person to understand or why they could not have recified this when it happened back in 2004 and so they are demanding the funds or they will take legal action against me.

I have never asked for help in my life, always paid my way and never needed to ask even my family for financial help. I was even doing two jobs when I was fifteen and have worked hard all my life. Now, I cannot look after my children as I would like and cannot believe what has happened to my life. I have the most wonderful/beautiful children and had hoped to give them a better life than I have had, I feel like i am letting them down. I cannot afford my rent after this month. My biggest worry at present is paying back this money, it is making me ill with worry.

Bella3
Here since: Feb 17, 2007
Female, 35
unemployed
personal
London, London, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: English

Dear readers

I am in debt can you help?

I owe so much money to a credit lender that need big help from anybody, please can you help?

I am unemployed with a deafness disablity. Because of my disability I cannot get a job to pay for it.

Any amount will be appretiated.

Bella

Sarah2
Here since: Jul 15, 2006
Female, 27
Full-time Mum
Dorset, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: English

Hi my name is sarah.

I have a selection of boys baby clothes (newborn - 6 months), girls clothes (4 - 6 yrs) and a load of soft toys to give away. 

My children are growing so fast that I would like to give them to someone instead of throwing them away.

If you are interested then please let me know.

karlsberg
Here since: Aug 14, 2007
Male, 27
unemployed
leicestershire, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: english

right,my name is karl, im 27 years old and ive had nothing but bad luck all my life, my brother was murdered, my ex conned me into signing my house over to her, i have credit card bills she ran up, i dont see my son as she wont let me, my mum has cancer, i lost my job and noone will hire me, my car has broken down, i have no money other than a crappy 120 pound every 2 weeks, was my birthday last sunday so yet another great year to look forward to, lets see what can go wrong this year. does anyone fancy giving me a break and help me get my life back on track just so i can start a buisness as im a keen gardener and it would at least give me a reason to wake up in the morning, if i do get a buisness up and running and it goes well i will pay every penny back, thanks for reading. i apologise if im late answering messages as i dont have my own computer, i have to use my friends

Desperate with money

Hi I'm in deperate need of help from anybody.  After a miscarriage at the begining of this year my patner left me and he left me with all the debt to.  I need to pay of mortgage areas and bills that I cannot afford.  I cannot sell the house as the property market in our area will not allow it.  I have tried to sell for several months now but to no avail.  I need money and my job does not cover what I need as I only work part time.

I'm looking to raise some money pay pay off outstanding bills.  I cannot get a loan as I don't earn enough to do this and it would only make matters worse.  Can anyone suggest something to help me with my situation.  I'm getting deprest from it and my doctors keep prescibing anti depresants which I really don't want.  If only I could get some help.

30 yr old female going on 60! please help me take the pressure of

Hi, I am asking anybody to help me,although I find this difficult-i do have pride..but I am desperate and it feels awful having to ask.I'm not sure this works and if I will get a an answer but I am desperate to help my mother live in a safer place,in peace,and with debts cleared.My mum is one of the abused children-irish survivors.She was brought up in a coonvent in galway from the age of 3 to 15 where she suffered horifically-like many did.

I am trying to do something for her as my dad has just passed away after being wrongly diagnosed and we are still suffering but cant get on with our lives,or to greave as everything else is pilling on top of us.

she is in debt,and i cannot get a job because of an illness.

I dont know if anything will come back of this but if someone out there can reach me ill be eternally greatful.

thankyou..sherrry

willy,
Here since: Mar 29, 2007
Male, 23
dairy farmer
Leighton Dairy Farm
Brighton, East Sussex, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
i need help fast
Please if anyone is out there who can help i would be extremely grateful. I am going to lose my home on wednesday if i don't clear my mortgage arrears of £5000. The arrears arose because my husband left me and my three kids for another woman and has failed to keep up his financial side of things. I have no where to go and I don't want my kids to lose their belongings , I can't afford christmas this year so there won't be any new toys for them. My kids are aged 3,4 and 7 and i am going to have to explain to them that although they have been good santa couldn't give them their toys this year. All i want is to keep my home for them. I am not looking for a free loan I will repay I don't know how long it will take but any money borrowed will be repaid that i swear on my kids lives. Please if anyone can help.
elle
Here since: Aug 2, 2007
Female, 19
bradford, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: brittish
Hi my name is elle and i am on here for freinship pluss if i can help any one with there worries ill tell u and id also like help if anyone reads my letter with my worries its realy nice to be able to cum on a website where you can oppen up and get advise propply so anyways wen i read anyones letters and i may no a place or a number that will help i will let you know bye for now x.....
PLEASE HELP BEFORE I GET JAILED

l am mentally sick, please l need help pay back a terrible debt of mortgage. its really getting bad and things are not working as expected. l got 3 kids and am responsible for their education and upkeep all alone. l have to pay back the debt before l land myself in jail. lts a morgage of $40,000. lts long overdue as the morgage is now 7years and l am yet to complete repaymeny. Please HELP. l now cant sleep well, l got high blood pressure. PLEASE HELP ME.... Going to jail wont solve the problem, lt will only add to it. my kids are too young to be fatherless....

Forgotten Girl
Here since: Apr 26, 2007
Female, 26
United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland

Hi,

I am a girl of 25 who lives in the United Kingdom.  Six months ago I was attacked and raped and since then I have had a very hard time of coming to terms with what happened.  I hardly go out and I cannot bear to walk through the town where I live knowing that this man is out there living a normal life.

My friend is living abroad and has offered me the chance to go out there, I really want to do this and feel the need to escape so very badly.  My problem is I am 20 grand in debt and would never be able to afford to carry on paying this debt if I had to live abroad(currently I am with my parents)

What do you think I should do? I feel like I am the end of the line.

burg
Here since: Apr 27, 2007
Female, 41
unable to work
cheltenham, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland

hello my name is jackie im 40 years old with one son who is 18. i have recently been diagnosed with lupas and a bone disaease and am finding it impossible to lead a normal life. my son cares for me spending all his time in the house.

i have family in ireland and which to relocate so that they could care for me and most importantly that my son can have a normal life.

i cannot work and my son cant work because he cares for me. it affects him very much although he does not admit it i can tell he wants to have fun and lead a normal life that he deserves.

i need money for a deposit and a downpayment for my son to get an apartment, and moving cost to relocate to ireland with my family.

this is alot im asking for and i would be so greatful for any donation, if one person could just send a pound or anythin smaller out of the kindness of there hearts i would be so thankful. ive put our adress at the bottom,please help my son, lifes to short to waste and he deserves so much better. thank you very much.

79 shakespeare road

cheltenham gl51 7hr

eluned87
Here since: Mar 23, 2007
Female, 20
mother/homemaker
United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland

im a 20 yr old mother of two and i currently live with my partner and father of my children in a tiny little flat. However we have to move out of the flat this week as the horrendous damp and mould is making my baby girl ill and causing her to have breathing difficulties. The problem is the council wont give us a house as there are just none available and we can't afford to rent any properties in our area.We can't get a mortgage either as despite my partner working incredibly hard as a decorator (despite nearly dying last year and still suffering awful pain at times). We are going to have to move in with my parents and brother and sister in their little flat until we find somewhere but there just isnt room.

We desperatley need money to buy a house, just a small house, something we can call home. I know its a hugely big ask and to be honest i don't think anyone will be willing to help us but i just think there is no harm in asking. My partner works incredibly hard for very little money and it seems like some people get money for nothing.It just seems so unfair. All i want is the best for my children. If anybody can help PLEASE PLEASE do we will be eternally grateful, even just a little bit of money could help us on our way to buying a house or pay for a few months rent. Thankyou very much for reading this, all my love x

hi;-)

"Hi my name is Elizabeth and i am looking for help, i am feeling realy deppressed and i am having many money troubles everthing seems to be mixed up at the moment and i cant seem to find a way out of this dark tunnel i am in".

Ant
Here since: Jul 26, 2007
Male, 40
Wanting To Go Back To Work Desperately
Hertfordshire, HP4 3PT. UK, 4 Salters Close, Berkhamsted,, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: English
high education fees...

I am oversea student in UK, I have to pay my high education fees every year which is 11000GBP per year.  Could someone can suggest me what should I do in here.

getridofdebt
Here since: Mar 25, 2007
Female, 22
england, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: english
i am a honest and hard-working mum and i do what i can to help others when i can.
Ricky
Here since: Oct 3, 2006
Male, 21
Business Student
Prestwick, South Ayrshire, United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
Languages: English
Hello, I am in the unfortunate position of not even having my bus fare to work tomorrow.

Hello,

I am in the unfortunate position of not even having my bus fare money to go to work tomorrow. My car has stopped working and is now at the scrapyard. Due to unexpected bills I am now £245 overdrawn at the bank and I don't get paid until the end of this month. I have a full time job, and have tried to get a loan, but I have been unsuccessful. I just don't know what to do. I don't have any family who are in a position to help me. Is there anyone who is willing to take a risk and grant me a personal loan, which I promise to pay back please? I will indeed return the kindness to someone else in need when I am on my feet.

Thanking you so very much for you're kind consideration.

Jacqueline  

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