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recovering alcoholic/addict needs help to keep his home.

hello my name is alan i am a gratefully recovering alcoholic/addict that has fallen upon very hard times on September 29,2006 i entered a rehab center and i am very thankful that i did it showed me the path to recovery and to my higher power.i had been off work for a month prior to the rehab do to my addictions and for a while after i got out then i returned to work for about a month then i got laid off the week before Christmas and am still off today I am a painter so sometimes winter brings on a slow spell.we are so broke I cant even explain they are trying to foreclose on our house and repo our cars plus everything else is behind and i dont know what to do I am having no luck finding a job to fill in till i can get pack to painting if anyone could send help we would appreciate it   greatly.  Thank you.                                                         

In Love With Being In Love,...ADDICTED!!!

Addicted to Love

*(with someone who is emotionally abusive at times)  * (has a tendency not to be faithful) *  (the list goes on)

BUT...

Even with all of those overwhelming factors, I am in love with this man, my best friend, and I would be absolutely lost without him. I know this relationship is not healthy and has the potential to go to hell in a hand basket quicker than I can say his name, my problem is I have no interest with being with anyone else, I have tried all of the things they tell you to do during a break up, I've tried and failed miserably. I feel deep down that this is who I am supposed to be with for the duration. Can anyone help me to help him? Your input is greatly appreciated.

Comment: sofee is 1000% correct......
Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "In Love With Being In Love,...ADDICTED!!!"

sofee is 1000% correct... you are a beautiful woman who needs to open her eyes. The harsh reality is that as long as u put up with it, you are almost as much to blame is he is.... I know that may sound terrible, but you are a young, healthy, human who is capable of removing herself from an obvious dead end relationship.... Do what u already know in your heart you have to do..how many times does this story have to be told (I'm referring to this type of story in general) b4 woman start to realize that men that are abusive in this way, are not changeable... it's a sickness. I personally couldn't even imagine harming a female in that fashion... Someone who would do that is not man to me and has serious mental issues.... get out asap. Good Luck and take care!
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