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W H O ~ K N E W
Here since: Jun 27, 2006
USA
ASSISTANCE


You are NOT alone!

There are MANY people here who can help you.


Lady Christie,

Soulight
,

Elaine,

Ekikaseven,


and myself are just a few. We have taken the time to compile a TON of resources to help others.

We have all been in the same shoes at one time or another - some of us still are. By working together and helping eachother, we can make it through.

We will try to address your posts individually, if we can. However, due to the enormity of the site, the numerous requests, and the vast number of resources available - not to mention the scammers who post - it can be difficult at times. Please be patient. Please check previous posts and pre-existing pages for information.

We are not perfect, we make mistakes. We have bad days - just like you. We have bills to pay, familes to care for, illnesses to deal with, and other burdens just like you. BUT just like you, we have a desire to make our lives, and the lives of those we meet, better in some small way. We may send a prayer, a cyber hug, information, links, advice, or even maybe some construcive criticism, if necessary. We do what we do, because we need to, in our own way. If we are lucky, we get to see people move on because they have found the help they needed and do not need to be here anymore.

The creators of AIDPAGE have given us, all of us, a great opportunity to reach out and help one another. Please, make the most of your time here: to share, to hope, to dream of a better life; then go out and make it happen!
Please tell me about broken links and ANY other errors on my pages! Thank you!
HELP for people with little or no income - Nationwide





 

The NATIONWIDE organizations listed below can assist you with your basic needs, including: food, clothing, rent, utilities, transportation, back to school needs, medical, dental, and holiday needs.

IF they cannot assist you, they may be able to refer you to someone who can.

 

 

Government benefits
Find out what government benefits you may qualify for

Local benefits by state
Select a State from the map to view a list of the selected State's benefit programs.

SSA.gov
To apply for Social Security Disability or Supplemental Security Income

Department of Labor
Can assist with: unemployment, job search, resumes, job training, wage and hour, layoffs, overtime, workplace safety, retirement and health benefits, and disability questions.

211.org

Community Action Organization

St Vincent De Paul

Red Cross

United Way

Catholic Charities

Salvation Army

WIC
Specifically for pregnant/postpartum women and children UNDER 5

HEAP
utility assistance

FOOD STAMPS - OFFICES BY STATES

Social Services

American Public Human Services Association

Internet site that list social service agencies by state

A NATIONWIDE listing of social services offices and applications online

HUD - RENTAL ASSISTANCE
If you need rental assistance this is the place to start. Subsidized housing is based on your income and often times it is much quicker to get into a subsidized apartment than to wait for a Section 8 Subsidy approval
Also check out
how subsidized rent is determined

Ways to Work
A LOAN program specifically for low income families in need of a car or car repair, who do NOT qualify for conventional loans.

http://www.alliance1.org/Programs/Waystowork.htm

Support for military personnel and their families
Assistance just for military and their families

Free Application for Federal Student Aid - FAFSA
government grants to finance your education

United Health Care Childrens Foundation
Grants, up to $5,000, can help families pay for the costs associated with therapies such as speech, physical and psychotherapy sessions; for medical equipment such as wheelchairs, braces, hearing aids and eye glasses; and for orthodontia and dental treatments.

MODEST NEEDS
non-profit organization reaching out to hard-working individuals and families who suddenly find themselves faced with small, emergency expenses that they have no way to afford on their own

OPEN DIRECTORY PROJECT
Listing of organizations which grant wishes to disabled, terminally ill, children and adults.

Prosper
loan program for people - from people

Partnership for Prescription Assistance
assistance with medications for those without insurance

Donated Dental services
In each state at least one program coordinator is responsible for determining that applicants are either disabled, elderly or medically compromised and have no other way for paying for dental care.

Together Rx
discount card for prescriptions

Toys for Tots
Christmas assistance for families with children

FREECYCLE
looking for something? Getting rid of something? Check out FreeCycle!

MONEY MANAGEMENT

Credit counseling

CCCS

NFCC

money management. org

credit.org

ATTORNEYS

probono attys

divorce source

PETS

If you need financial assistance, for a pet who is ill, check out this page:
National financial assistance organizations for pets

FEMA

FEMA NATIONAL SITE

Childrens Healthcare Emergencies

United Health Care Children’s Fund might be able to help. "Grants, up to $5,000, can help families pay for the costs associated with therapies such as speech, physical and psychotherapy sessions; for medical equipment such as wheelchairs, braces, hearing aids and eye glasses; and for orthodontia and dental treatments."

united health care

HOUSING


HUD/SECTION 8/Govt subsidized housing
Section 8 housing usually has a long list because the subsidy is attached to the person, not the property. This means that regardless of where the person lives, they still get the subsidy. In NY the waiting list is 8-10 years.

****If at anytime, you are denied accessibility to applying for any program, you should contact your local city, county, or state leaders and have them intervene on your behalf. - THIS APPLIES TO ANYONE WHO IS DENIED ASSISTANCE.

HOWEVER, there is another alternative. Subsidized housing where the subsidy stays with the property rather than with the renter. You would still pay the same amount of rent - it is based on your income - but you would have to move into a government subsidized property.

In most cases, these are handicapped accessible, family oriented, all the maintenance is included - among other things.

I am including the link for HUD below - just click on the proper state and take it from there. You will need a minimal security deposit - which you can possibly get paid by social services or another charitable organization.

Regardless of how long the list is you should still be able to be put on the list.
Contributed links:

hud rental assistance

fair housing act

home page

Americans with disabilities act homepage

GRANTS

evander holyfield foundation

prosper loan program

modest needs

FOOD CO-OPs

Find a food co-op near you!

http://www.coopdirectory.org/

NEW FROM ELAINE !!!

8/29/07

nichy org - resources

is it a scam?

8/6/07 ~ A GREAT LINK FROM SANDY 6

looking for grants? here is a great place to start!

AZOGROUP.COM

How To Locate Small Business Grants,
Government Grants, and Other Grant Money

***7/28/07 More great links from ELAINE***

HAC - HOUSING ASSISTANCE COUNCIL
Does NOT help individuals, BUT does have a lot of information and links for individuals- please browse through the site for more information.

***More from ELAINE 7/22/07***

FREE MEDICAL CAMPS

What do we mean by Free Clinics

(Free Medical Clinic/Free Dental Clinics)

* Where one can get free medical help .

* Some of the listings we have do charge very little fee.

* Some places they ask you for small donation. We still list them Free Medical clinicss/Clinics as they are almost free.

There is one listing which ask for $20.00 per visit. We considered listing them, we made a note in the listing that they charge. As long as we see a motive towards helping people who are in need of medical help we consider them Free Clinics (We agree that we are going away from "Free") but we know their effort is worth lot more to lots of people.

* Some are for low income people, some are for homeless

* Some only serve the local community residents.

* Some Clinics are specific to HIV treatment etc. (We list them as well)



pro bono" financial planning assistance

We provide personal financial guidance to members of the public who cannot afford a financial advisor, or who are facing an immediate or unusual financial need.

****NEW from ELAINE! 7/19/07***

GRASSROOTS.ORG
This is one site you have to see for yourself! If you want to start a non-profit, volunteer, get involved, or just do some research, this is the place to start!

From Grassroots:

"The mission of Grassroots.org is to serve as a catalyst for positive social change by leveraging modern technologies and business best practices. Grassroots.org spreads important social information via our network of socially-focused web sites, while also providing non-profit organizations with free valuable resources to increase their efficiency and productivity.

Our ultimate goal is to adopt 10,000 nonprofit members, and to provide them each with an average of $10,000 of services per year at no charge (for a total savings of $100 million per year!). Additionally we will continually develop over 30 high profile nonprofit Internet portals in cooperation with specialist partners, utilizing high profile domains such as PlanetEarth.org, Relief.org, ImmigrationReform.com, Philanthropists.org, Diseases.org, Homeless.org, Crime.org, Liberties.com, and Childrens.net

We strive to deliver clear and objective information that is usable by everyday global citizens, with extra emphasis on issues facing the United States. Our social action websites are designed to encourage individuals to get involved in their communities and to provide them with the information they need to make a difference.

We focus on everyday citizens by offering free action oriented information on our sites, via our forums - and through our social action email addresses, blogs, and other technologies. We provide individuals with ways to express themselves, learn, share, and to volunteer on important projects.

We focus on nonprofits by offering free services including our one of a kind Grassroots Toolbox full of free valuable web based services – plus full-featured web hosting, free domain registration, free website design, mentoring services, consulting and more."

Also from ELAINE...

Emergency food and shelter board program

The EFSP National Board does not provide direct client assistance. Direct assistance is provided through a variety of resources, which may include EFSP funding in your community. If you are in search of assistance for yourself or someone you know, you should look in the community services section of your local telephone directory. You should find these pages in the front of your directory and should look for listings for American Red Cross, Catholic Charities or Catholic Social Services, The Salvation Army, United Way Information and Referral, or other non-profit service providers. You may also click on Funded Organizations, here or on the EFSP homepage, to find organizations funded through EFSP in your community who may be able to assist or refer you to the appropriate assistance.

SEX OFFENDER

Is there a sex offender living near you?
find out here

 

Need financial help with dental costs in order to get teeth fixed

I am in urgent need of serious dental work. Due to my pregnancies being so close together and the medications I was on my teeth have become in serious need of work. We cannot afford to get it done without my children having to suffer so I suffer day to day. I need 1 tooth pulled and several fixed. I cannot find a dentist any where around us that is willing to help or work with us on costs. I would be ever so grateful for any help. I would give anything to be able to truly smile in our next family photo or for my children to look at my smile and say how pretty mommy... anything. My oldest daughter is now in school and I want her to be proud of her mommy not embarrassed

Comment: disabled lady seeking help...
Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "US Federal Government Grants, Scholarships, Loans, Free Services"

disabled lady seeking help in finding grant for product invention.
Comment: My name is michelle and I...
Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "Info: Foundation Grants, Charity..."

My name is michelle and I am a 17 year old in high school. My mom seperated from her husband during the summer and in order to attend my same high school and graduate I had to move in with family friends. My mom can barely get by and she certainly has no money to spare and no room for me to live. I have to move out after graduation and me and my boyfriend of 2 years were going to get a place and attend college. Means we are both going to college full time we will not be able to work as much as we should. With cost of living so expensive I think that it is imposible. I'm saving for a car and have not been able to purchase one yet. We really need help..
knowledgelover1
Here since: Oct 4, 2005
Female, 38
Student
USA

    Each morning, we all awake to innumerable challenges to overcome and tasks to accomplish. Sometimes it is a challenge to get out of bed from lack of sleep, or it is a challenge to get out of debt and live stress free; but within each of us, there is a driving force compelling us to rise above these challenges and complete the tasks at hand. 
     For those of you who were blessed to receive a college degree and not worry about paying tuition in addition to managing 23 credits simultaneously, continue reading.  This is my reality, the evolving story of female engineering student faced with the challenge of  how to pay for tuition and attain the long – desired dream of receiving a college degree.  Every morning I awake to this challenge of paying my tuition before my classes are cancelled, before my meal plan is denied, and before I’m forced to move off campus and take a Leave of Absence; but my driving force to finish my degree compels me to search for new ways of financing my education. Hence, this is my reason for creating this website, to seek assistance in my most desperate time of need.

      I am currently a senior in college majoring in electrical engineering.  This is my sixth week of school and unfortunately, I have a balance on my account of $8000 dollars, and I do not have a single textbook for any of my courses.  My financial aid did not cover the cost of my tuition this semester, and if my balance is not paid immediately I will be forced to take a Leave of Absence for this semester. In fact, the deadline to resolve this issue quickly approaches.
My family is unable to help me because of unexpected expenses such as medical bills and other debt.  I am currently searching for part – time work to make extra money, but by the time I earn enough to pay my tuition I will probably have to leave school.  I have been denied twice for outside loans because I have not established credit and lenders will not approve me. I cannot ask someone in my family to co-sign because of their own debt situation. 
I truly look forward to finishing my degree.  I will be the first person in my family to actually complete college and I am doing everything possible with the help of the Higher Power to accomplish this goal. If anyone reading this message is able to help me get out of this situation by their generous donations and / or loan in which I offer to pay interest, I thank you in advance. 
            I know that either you or someone you know was once in this predicament.  Your generosity during this stressful time is greatly appreciated. No good deed passes without reward in this world. Your assistance in aiding me to complete my education and advance into the prosperous and professional career of engineering will reap plenty of benefits.

Comment: We need a loan in the amount...
Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "US Federal Government Grants, Scholarships, Loans, Free Services"

We need a loan in the amount of $150,000 to save our home and to pay off some outstanding debt. We have bad credit and I want to pay everything off and start fresh... Our home is in forclosure. My special needs child was in the hospital for 9 weeks and we just keep getting farther and farther behind. Please if someone knows where I can get help, let me know. Thanks Alot!
Comment: Hello, My name is Amanda....
Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "Info: Foundation Grants, Charity..."

Hello, My name is Amanda. I am a single mother to 3 young girls. I have twin girls that are soon to be 6 and then I have a 4 year old daughter. As like any other mother I want the best for my children. I recently got out of a bad marriage with the my children's father. We was married for almost 7 years. I have always considered myself a now reborn Christian woman and I really did not want to end up another divorced single mother. However the circumstances overwelmed me and my hands was tied. The truth is that my now ex husband has a drug addiction. He did some drugs when we was dating but as a insecure teenager I felt that was just normal and I over looked it because he liked me and I was never the type that got asked out very much. Although I feel silly for it now, as a teenager I never saw it through the eyes of an adult. Needless to say after about a year of dating I found myself pregnant. Not only was I have a child but I found out I was having twins. It was a very hard pregnancy. I was sick night and day. I never had much help from the girl's father. I was in the hospital more than it seemed that I was out. I never had any thoughts of abortion or adoption, I did know that I had to face my mistakes and responsabilities. And that was far from easy. When the girls was 6 months old we decided we would get married. I was not really ready for it, but then I felt obligated to. The marriage was very rocky. He still relied on his drugs for everything and was gone out to get drugs day after day. I took care of the girls. He would come in night after night drunk,loaded on pills or just high. When I spoke of it in disapproval he would be come enraged with anger and we would fight. Not just verbally but physically as well. I can remember signing the girls up for the pretty baby contest in the county fair. We had a fight on the night before and he hit me in my cav muscle so hard that I could not walk without limping. However, I was a determined mother, so therefore I walked across the stage with a limp. This was just the tip of the iceburg for the pain I endured. He got drunk one day and I asked him to make me a bottle for feeding time. I had some bottles soaking on the counter in the kitchen. A normal person I would hope, would not have got one of those bottles to use but his impaired judgement did so. The bottle was full of Sun dish washing liquid. I did not know that he grabbed the wrong bottle so I started to feed it to my daughter. She did not want to eat it obviously and spit it up. Then I took notice that it was really bubbly. I asked him where he got the bottle and soon figured out what he did. I was in a panic and called the hospital. They told me that she would be fine that she would just have an upset stomache from the ordeal. As they got older things just got harder for us. He lost his job and was unemployeed. I started to job search shortly after the girls was 6 months old. He continued to do his drugs and drinking. His friends was with him all of the time and I always had a house full. I got angry and I just wanted it to end. I wanted him to work and to stay off of drugs. He agreed that things would change. We moved and I thought that we would have a bright new begining. It did last for a short time and then he lost yet another job, which left me the only one working. That gave him the gumption to have his friends back around while I was gone to work. And of coarse that led right back to the drugs and drinking. After a year of marriage and working I found myself pregnant again. So once again I approached him with my concerns of him staying off of drugs and make his family top priority. And again he agreed to it and stopped yet again for a brief period. But he also continued working and did go without his friends being around all of the time. This time things started to look brighter. We decided to go and buy a $60,000 dollar new home. I was so happy and excited. I knew that we would have to have something bigger than what we had. My youngest daughter was born and it was just something wonderful for us to look forward to. So after my youngest daughter was born, we moved into our new house. He was keeping a job and I thought that things was going great. Then once again we was near his friends and they started coming back around. That just lead up to him losing yet another job. I was once again stuck with the morgage payments and the bills. He did nothing but play video games and hang around with his friends that did drugs. Things began to fall apart yet again. He just became more dependant on drugs and the visits of his friends. We fought day in and day out. I was working still and having a really hard time making ends meet. He had 7 people staying with us to support his drug habits. I soon could not afford to pay all of the bills and not one of his live ins offered to pay anything to help me with the added expenses that they had help earn. I worked second shift and I pulled a lot of over time. I left the children with him to take care of. I never knew until later on after I went to day shift that his idea of watching the children was turning the lock a round on the bedroom door and lock them in their room. The poor children would soil themselves and need to be changed and bathed. I was at work so I just assumed that would be just commom sense. However, I was wrong. During this time they would take off their soiled clothes and then use the bathroom where ever they had to go at because they was only 2 years old and was cut off from the world. He would go outside and play basketball, ride bicycles like a child, or play video games with his friends. When I would come home from work things was changed so that I was not aware of what he was doing. My uncle started dating a woman next door to us and later told my mom that the girls was standing in their window, naked and dirty. Fights was starting to break out between some of his friends. One of his friends started selling drugs from our house. The police was called to our house on numerous occasions for fights or disturbances. Then my uncle called my Mom and she got in contact with me and told me that I was just about to get reported and I was going to lose my girls. I started to panic right away. I was behind on my house payments and I decided that I just wanted away from it all. I allowed the house to go up for auction. So we moved yet again. I was still the only one working as usual. Things slowed down again for us after the move. As before he changed for a short time. I was still working and he was working as well. I then had a bad turn during the winter weather and I rolled my van on icy roads which had me layed off from work for a while. He ended up losing his job shortly after that. Then things began to go the same way as they had in the past. I was fed up for the last time. I left with the children and we moved in with my Mother. Not long after returning to work, and being without him I had another turn for the bad. My father grew ill and passed away. I was off work yet again and mourning and depression . He and I decided to try to make things work while I was vulernable and without a father figure. But instead of moving bak in to our last home, we stayed with his parents.When we finally decided to go back to our other home we found the electric had been turned off. It was a very expensive bill so we ended up putting our belongings in storage and stayed with his parents. I was really depressed from all of the hard times that had happened. Losing a house, wrecking a vehicle, and then the loss of my father just topped it all off. I was still taking time off of work and I had started to get help with my depression. I then decided it was time to go back to work after a few months of not working. I was still not over my depression, but I knew that money had to come in. He was working again, but I knew that never seemed to last long. And it did not. He started back on drugs when he started back to work. Money was low as usual. Not long after he quit again. He stole some money off of his own mother one day before they went out of town for a wedding. When his mother got back she discovered the money was gone and I got the blame. So we had a huge argument and she told me to leave. This all happened around 11:00pm one night. I called my Mom and we moved all during the night. He had lingered on after the wedding and stayed out of town. I had left for the 2nd time of our marriage. When he got back home we was gone. I decided that it would be best if we could go somewhere that he would not bother me or pressure me to become a family again. But that was just dream. He found us and began the usual apologizing. However, I was not too quick to take him back. I got a job and saved my money and got my own house. He took it upon himself to move in with us again after we got a new home. He worked for a while and then yet again he quit. Bills got to hard for me to pay so needless to say our electric was turned off and I could not pay the $800.00 dollar bill. So I left again. The 3rd and final time. Now we are divorced and the girls and I stay on at my Mom's. I am finished with the craziness he has put us through. Currently I have been going back to college and I am trying to get my Lpn liscense.But I have been faced with some more bad times. I had to miss a lot this last sememster which disqualifies me for fiancial aid. My children and I was sick for almost 2 months of the semester. One of my daughter was having hearing troubles and she had appointment after appointment until finally she had tubes placed in her ears. My other 2 daughters as well as myself was sick with sinus infections and bronchial infections. Now I am faced with no fiancial aid to finish my eduaction. My ex husband has not paid me one red cent for child support. He has not helped me with the girl's school needs, or any other things that they have needed. I have done it all with some help from my Mom. My mom just can not do everything with 4 add ons to her small income. Now I am faced with all of the debts from the marriage because my ex husband has not payed his half on any of the expenses or as I have said child support. Right now I am in need with assistance with money to clear out my debt from the prior marriage. I really want to file bankruptsy but that costs a lot of money and I just draw a very small check that the girls and I are barely surviving off of. I also need help with making a career for my family. I really want to become a Lpn or go into photography and own my own studio. I juut can not make it on what I recieve. All I want is the best for my children. I am already their hero. I am not asking for pity or sorrow. I am just asking for some help. I really want to further my eduaction, as well as getting a clean slate on my credit report. I am still at my mom's house and I would also love to have my own home. I know that would also make the children very happy. They are what means the most to me. I just want them taking care of. If anyone is willing to help out a single mother with 3 beautiful girls, please contact me @ blossom222252@yahoo.com. Thank you for taking time to reading my message here. I hope to hear fom someone soon. It will be well appreciated because right now its hard for me to even buy shoes for the girls. Take care.....
Adult learner wanting to return to school, need help with funds
I need financial assistance with school. I am a good student holding a 3.8 gpa and need help. Please help me ! Only serious replys are wanted.
Peace, love, and strength
Here since: Jul 24, 2006
Female, 29
T.P Services co-founder
Nonprofit
woodridge, Illinois, USA
Languages: english

Our mission is to assist families that are in need of emergency assistance and also to assist children of incarcerated parents year round, so they will know that someone is there for them. I have been in some situations and I am not really 100% together, but then who is? We do not have the funds yet, but is seeking to kick off this non profit service. I am going back to NIU  and there are just people out there like my children and myself that do not know where else to turn after you have tried everything and truly tried everything to make ends meet so you won't loose your car or your house. So, instead of just giving up i'm going back to school. It is very hard..nothing is really easy. I just don't want my kids to feel neglected because every job I get downsizes or sales the property or the company. I know there is somewhere outhere that can help, I just don't know where. When I do get back on track my mission is to make others happy and provide some relief from the struggles of everyday life for people who really get up and get out there to be a better people to their self and their children. I am still reading the info on here how to actually operate this site so, if I did something incorrecty I do apologizeGod bless anyone who is really out there trying to make a better like. I really mean it. Just pray pray pray and you will receive if you believe.  

 Our email address : t.pservices@yahoo.com                                                                                                                        

Comment: My brother is need of a bone...
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My brother is need of a bone marrow transplant in the immediate future or he will die. His story is also posted on the Buzz radio station website at www.buzz103.com. His name is Doug Williams; he's 46 years old, dad to Jennifer and Danny, and grandfather to Angelina. Unfortunately, Doug has an extremely rare blood disorder called Aplastic Anemia Doug has been the primary breadwinner of our family but he can no longer work due to this horrible, debilitating disease. Low red blood cells cause him severe fatigue, low white blood cells force him into isolation where he has to avoid human contact because he cannot fight infections, and low platelets place him at risk of uncontrolled bleeding. Because of Doug's medical restrictions he cannot work or participate in every day life. He's always been a hardworking, taxpaying citizen who has never asked or needed help. He is now considered to be permanently disabled, with no income, he cannot work, his disability insurance has run out, he does not qualify for Medicaid, but is awaiting a determination on receiving Social Security Disability payments. Although we have health insurance coverage, it is almost exhausted and it does not cover a National Bone Marrow search. A National Bone Marrow search has become necessary because none of Doug's family members are compatible matches. The National Bone Marrow search and subsequent treatment will cost approximately $100,000 - $400,000 in out of pocket costs. Checks payable to: National Transplant Assistance Fund. Memo section of check: In Honor of Doug Williams, 150 N. Radnor Chester Road, Suite F-120, Radnor, PA 19087

Contributed links:
WHAT TO DO FIRST IN A CRISIS

CRISIS -----ABUSE--- ELECTRIC IS GOING TO BE CUT OFF---NO HEAT-----NO WATER---SHELTER----LAID OFF--LOST JOB--CLOTHES--HOT LINES----LOST CHILD--CUSTODY--HEAT--SAFE HOUSE--WOMENS -CHILD ABUSE -SHELTER--HELP--PROBLEM KIDS--ANGER--HELP--AID-CRISIS---HOW TO GET A JOB WITH CRIMINAL RECORD--HANDLE A DEBT COLLECTOR---WHAT TO DO FIRST IF YOU JUST CAN'T THINK ANYMORE

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Also , for information that will help with day-to-day living as a low income person , go to this page :

http://national-resources-for-low-income-individuals.app-just-trying-to-help-1.aidpage.com/

 

 

 

 

I USED TO HAVE PART OF THIS PAGE IN SPANISH , BUT I HAVE FOUND MY TRANSLATION WAS NOT VERY GOOD. HERE IS A SITE WHERE YOU WILL GET TRANSLATION HELP FOR THE WHOLE PAGE :

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THE WORKING HOMELESS TONS OF INFORMATION AND NETWORKING

 

 

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NATURAL DISASTER ASSISTANCE

 

 

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  IF YOU ARE NOT BEING ABUSED , SCROLL PAST THE NEXT SECTION TO THE THREE LINES OF BLUE STARS*******

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IF YOU ARE BEING ABUSED


 Domestic Violence Hotline:
800.621.HOPE (4673)


Crime Victims Hotline:
866.689.HELP (4357)


Rape & Sexual Assault Hotline:
212.227.3000


TDD Phone Number for all hotlines:
800.810.7444
 

 

 

Before ANYTHING  ELSE if you or your kids are being abused ;BREAK THE SILENCE ! If you can, leave and go to a safe place.  NOW.

 

 

 


• This can be anywhere the abuser can't find you or where you and your children will be protected.  Transition Houses are good choices for a safe place to go.  Never leave without taking your kids.



If you can, call the police or ask someone to call them for you.
• If you are in immediate danger dial 911.. You have the right to report an assault to the police.


 
• If you can, call a support line:  This is the National Domestic Abuse Support Line :

 

1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
1-800-787-3224 (TTY)


See your doctor or go to a hospital
• You can choose to see a Doctor or go to the hospital regarding your injuries without making a police report.


 

• If you choose to file a police report, all injuries need to be reported and documented.
 
• You need to make sure your injuries, or those of your children, are not serious or life threatening.

 

 


 See a Lawyer


• You may need to get a restraining order.
 
• You may need to get an interim custody order.
 
• You need to know your rights.

 

 

 

 □ Legal documents:
               Marriage license, divorce or separation
                        Papers, custody agreements, court orders

□ Driver’s license or photo identification

□ Birth certificates:
     Yours and your children's

□ Passports: 
     Yours and your children's

□ Immigration papers:
      Yours and your children's

□ Social Security Cards
     Yours and your children's

□ Money, check book, credit cards

□ Bank book, bank statement

□ Lease, rental agreement, house deed

□ House keys, car keys, safety deposit box
     Key

□ Address book, phone numbers
      Include friends, family members and
     Others who may be able to offer you support

□   Medications, medical records:
     Yours and your children's  

 

 

*It is not your fault or you kids fault.                           

       The abuser is the one with the problem*

 

 

When I left my home with my daughter to escape an abusive husband , I didn't want to go to a shelter . I was afraid of what it would be like. I moved in with different friends instead. My friends were really kind and helpful , but it did put alot of pressure and stress on everybody.

I look back and think that I should have done it differently. A shelter would have had all the things my daughter and I needed at the time : counseling , help with what to do next , other women and kids who could relate., and a place to stay at least for a while (we lived with 5 different families. They were wonderful , but kind of passed us around from family to family -we all knew each other and everybody wanted to help.This gave everybody a chance to help , but left my daughter and I with an even more lost feeling.)

If you are afraid of going to a shelter , don't be. They have heard every story in the book .  

Here is an idea of what it will be like :

 

SHELTER TOUR

 

 

This page has state-by state domestic violence contacts and resources :

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RESOURCES FOR EACH STATE

 

Do you have more questions about abuse ? Go to this site and look on the left side bar.

WINGS PROGRAM RESOURCES

 

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How to make decisions in the middle of a crisis.

 

Here is another good site that lists steps to making a decision. Sometimes when we are in a crisis situation , it is so hard to think about anything. This page  helps put some order in what we should do about those hard decisions that come with a crisis.

MAKING DECISIONS.

 

 

COPING WITH JOB LOSS

 

You are free to print the following information provided you have left the byline in tack (Copyright Pat Mistretta 2005, All rights reserved)

 

STEPS TO TAKE WHEN YOU HAVE BEEN LAID OFF

 

Unfortunately, in today's economic climate, layoffs are happening to many people.  Some might have seen it was coming, while others were caught off guard.  Either way, it can be a scary situation.  Here is some helpful information and things you should do when you have been laid off:

 

1.         Get a letter of recommendation from your employer.  Obviously, you have been laid off through no fault of your own.  It would be a great asset for you to have your employer give you a letter of recommendation to give to a prospective employer.  It would also help if the employer states in the letter of recommendation that you were terminated due to a layoff.

 

2.         Ask your current employer if he has any business referrals or recommendations on other places to seek employment.  Perhaps he has a business colleague that can use your services.

 

3.         Find out what kind of severance package you will get, if any.  If you have insurance, you will be eligible for COBRA benefits.  Although COBRA benefits can be expensive, it will carry you through until you are once again employed and covered by your new employer.  If, by chance, you cannot afford your COBRA premiums, you should look into short-term insurance coverage.  Bear in mind that most short-term insurance policies will not cover pre-existing conditions.  Another viable option is to check into health insurance "plans."

 

4.         Apply for Unemployment Insurance and Benefits.  More than likely, you will qualify for unemployment benefits.  The eligibility requirements differ from state to state and it is important that you contact your local unemployment office right away.  This should be your first step, especially since it will take a few weeks for the processing and until you see your first check.  Some states will require you to go into their office to apply, while others will allow an application done on the phone.  Either way, if you have access to a computer, it is important that you go to the Department of Labor's website (http:www.//dol.gov) to get information pertaining to your state.  Or, you can contact them directly at:  1-877-US-2JOBS (TTY: 1-877-889-5627).

 

5.         The Department of Labor also has good career information which can be found at: http://www.careeronestop.org/.

 

6.         Another helpful site on unemployment is the AFL CIO.  They offer a handbook on unemployment, as well as resourceful articles.  More information can be found at their website:  http://www.aflcio.org/yourjobeconomy/help/.

 

7.         Update your resume.  It is extremely important you have an updated resume.  Make it clear, precise and professional.  There are many sites offering assistance on creating a resume.  Monster (http://www.monster.com) and Hot Jobs (http://www.hotjobs.com) offer free resumes that you can create, and post to their websites.  Higher versions of Microsoft Works also have resume programs available right in their software.

 

8.         Get an email address.  The majority of employers are accepting resumes through email.  This is much faster than sending your resume through the postal service.  You will need an email address in order to not only send resumes, but to receive replies.  There are numerous places online to get free email addresses.  The most common sites are:  Yahoo! and MSN Hotmail, although you can get a listing of other available websites for free email addresses at:  http://fepg.net.       

 

9.         Seek jobs online and through the classifieds.  Online job searches are the most popular and there are many websites dedicated to seeking employment.  The more popular, online employment websites are:  http://careerbuilders.com, http://hotjobs.com, http://monster.com, and http://jobs.net.  The classifieds in your home newspaper is also a good place to seek employment.  You can either look for employment in the newspaper or at the newspapers online website.  If you are seeking a job in another area, you can check out that areas employment site directly online.  To find a listing of all newspapers, check out this website:  http://usnpl.com.

 

10.        Register with professional employment agencies.  There are numerous, private agencies available for employment.  Some might require a small registration fee, while others are totally free.

 

11.        Cold calling.  Stop by other corporations and companies that are similar to the place you have been working at and drop off a resume.

 

12.        Make sure you have an answering machine or voice mail.  This will be particularly helpful when you are not home to make sure you do not miss out on any important calls relating to employment.

 

13.        Review your finances.  This is the time for you to know exactly what kind of financial situation you are in.  Make a list of all of your assets, as well as your monthly bills.  If you can, contact your mortgage company or landlord and alert them to your situation.  They might be willing to work something out with you until you find other employment.  It would also be wise to contact your credit card companies, as well as your insurance carrier and bank that has your