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Home in foreclosure

Can anyone direct me to a government agency/grant that can help save our home from foreclosure? Our mortgage company has turned our account over to a law firm and the public sale is scheduled on our property. My husband works on commission and I am unable to work due to illness. Thank you for any information you may be able to give. J. Ragan

hopeful1
Here since: Oct 22, 2005
Female, 43
caregiver/mom
Killeen, Texas, USA
Languages: english
     I am the primary wage earner in a household of 6.  I was recently fired from my job as a result of caregiving services I provide for my husband who is disabled and unable to work.  My husband is in need of care provided by me and I need to find the services that are out there to provide me with the income necessary to provide for my family.  I have been unable to find anyone to talk to me about this.  also I am desperate to find assistance to help me save my home, we are getting very close to the point of foreclosure.  I need income and assistance to help keep us afloat and the chance to get back on our feet....Please someone help us!!
Help our Family so we may Help Others

 

 Hello,

 Some time ago we committed to deciding to help out families who are in need of financial assistance due to mortgage troubles by using Prosper as a tool.  Unfortunately, before we can begin to help others by lending to them through Prosper.com, we need a little help ourselves -- temporary help, for the months of May and June.  Our situation is as follows: We have a 2 & 1/2 year old son and want him to be happy.  We want to keep our home.  I became unemployed about a year ago and my wife remained working, but during this time we always paid our mortgage on time.  We wanted to hold on to our home. 

We can accept money through Paypal to the address of:  pcvcolin@yahoo.com

The situation became dire when my retirement account and credit cards were depleted; fortunately, at that point, I was offered a job.  Now both me and my wife are working again, both of us with good-paying government jobs (steady income).  With the new income, the mortgage lending company, Citicorp, did allow us to go for a modification to our loan, and while they did review our pay stubs, they gave us a new monthly payment that was so high that there will be no way for us to pay it.  Additionally, Citicorp demanded payment on the 11th of this month instead of waiting to the end of the month and threatened foreclosure (an senseless and mean threat, particularly since they agreed to defer payments for the last couple months and since they agreed to approve my modification; their threat is especially mean-spirited considering I paid them on time for the year when I was unemployed, using my retirement account money).

So, we have realized we will have to leave Citicorp and refinance.  Unfortunately the threat of foreclosure means that we have to pay them on the 11th.  While we have the money to do this we do not have the money for other things, like food, gasoline, and bills.  We ask for your help in whatever you can contribute to get us through the months of May and June; by the end of May we expect to be completely out of Citicorp and refinanced into a better loan, and by the end of June we will have recovered from this debacle.

After June we will begin to set aside money to lend to people through Prosper.com who have had mortgage troubles and who cannot get loans through ordinary lending institutions.  Help us position ourselves to help other people ~ please consider making a small contribution today.

You can see my credit details, photos, and a lender discussion of the Prosper.com that I myself received that helped me a few months ago to save my home when Citicorp first began to threaten our family.   See these details by linking to:  https://www.prosper.com/lend/listing.aspx?listingID=102009

Help my kids
Here since: Oct 25, 2006
Female, 40
disabled police officer
new port richey, Florida, USA
Languages: english
We desperatley need someones help. I am a devoted mother of 3 young children. I was a police officer for 13 years when an off duty car accident rendered me unable to work. The injuries sustained are costing me as much as disability pays me. My husband,Kevin Miller, abandoned me while I was pregnant with my 3rd son Noah. We don't know where he is and I do not receive any support. I am about to lose our home. I owe $10,000 in back payments and foreclosure has been filed. We have no where to go and no money saved. Every dime I get pays the bills and medications, what is left over I try to buy for my kids and I go without. I know that God will send someone to help us keep our home. If you have any info on the whereabouts of my husband please let me know! If anyone can donate money or send me in the right direction to save my home,please contact me @ jlaw3@tampabay.rr.com. I will repay every cent no matter how long it takes me. I am decent and Christian and have never asked for a handout in my life. I have always repaid my debts. We are in a desperate situation right now and I dn't know where to turn. I don't allow my kids to see me cry,  but we pray together as a family. Thank you for your time in reading this. God Bless, Julia
Foreclosure

My name is Ann and I was haveing problems with my mortage company. I was pay every month and my son died fo sudden cardiac death on October 21, 2004.  We had so many bills and my husband had been on the Job for 9 months. We lost 1 car and the medical Bills and Funeral were over $20,000. It was hard for my husband to work and he is trying so hard on his commissions. We got behind 1 month on our Mortgage and

got letters of forclosure. I sent the payment in and they sent it back and told me I had to send 2 payments.

I sent 2 payments and they returned them.I tried to call the help problem dept and they called me back

after a month. They would not accept my payments so I hired a Forclosure Company and took my payment

money for their fee and have saved 3 payments so far. I don't know what to do we don't want to lose our

house. This is scaring me and we are all seeing counselors for our grief. We need help. We keep getting deeper and the people keep telling us they are working on the mortgage. We are using a hardship. We are really miss our son and we can't lose our home.

Thanks for listening

Ann

 

 

 

 

Ann

huntinit
Here since: Dec 9, 2005
Female, 54
homemaker
Portland, Tennessee, USA
Languages: English
We are in real need of financial assistance. We would refinance our home if we could find someone willing to do this for us. Our current interest rate is 11.49% which makes our payment so high that we have struggled to keep payments made. We are not bad people, just have had some really back things happen. Our home is now in foreclosure and our only car has broken down. Luckily, we have a friend who has loaned us their spare until we can get our repaired. We do have equity in our home so the property could be collateral for a refinance. If you know of any mortgage companies or grants or ANYTHING.... Thank you for any help you may be willing to give.
shadow61002
Here since: Feb 14, 2008
Female, 44
Housewife
Languages: English

Still in need of help!  Dealing with Financial troubles badly!  our home is in forclosure and were about to lose everything!  Can't believe that I have been looking for help since Last year to keep from getting this way, and nothing but scammer after scammer gets in touch with me!  there doesn't seem to be anyone out there anymore that has a soul that would or even could help anyone that is having trouble anymore.  been working on getting things caught up but still falling behind with everrything going up all the time.  just about can live or raise a family!  want has this world gotten too.  it's a shame!  I pray all the time that things get better and so far nothing is working right for me.  I have faith and my heart keeps telling me that things are going to get better, but I hope I'm not trying to raise a family in the streets by the time that this would come true.  God Bless all of US!

need to save my home and care for a disabled spouse

     I am a 41 year old wife and mom and I recently lost my job.....I have a disabled spouse and he has been in need of more care than normal as his symptoms are increasing and I was fired from my job as a result of that care.  We are now facing possible foreclosure on our home and I am desperately seeking assistance to save it!!  We need to find the right people to talk to about my being hired as his continued caretaker.  I have been his primary caretaker for many years now and he has complete trust in me.  He does not need skilled nursing of any kind at this point and I do not think he would allow a stranger in the home at this point.  We also have 4 boys still at home which are in need of the stability of both parents at home and not a stranger in there home.  I have worked hard for this family by holding down full time employment, continuing college(which has been set aside for this term), and keeping this family afloat as best I can.  Now it has come to the point to where I need help and don't know where to turn?...

inglesma
Here since: Aug 22, 2007
38
USA
businesslady-1
Here since: Mar 29, 2008
Female, 49
work at home travel agent
atlanta, ga
Languages: english, spanish

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NoMoney
Here since: Nov 13, 2007
Female
Languages: English
Need help with foreclosure

My husband Robert died on 2/1/2005 due to unexpected complications from kidney disease. He was receiving Social Security disability income. The last full-time job I had was in 10/2001 which I lost unfortunately. Since that time I have been working temporary and have not been successful in finding suitable full-time work comprable with my professional skills and education. The temp assignments have not been consistent. This along with the lost of my husband's income caused me to get behind on my mortgages and other expenses. I have been behind since june 2005. My house is due to be auctioned off on 1/30/2006. At this point, I don't know what to do to stop this action. I know that foreclosure and bankruptcy can ruin my credit but there has to be some way out. Are there any other options?

 

Barbara J. Waddell-steele

truc63
Here since: Apr 5, 2007
Male, 44
Foreclosure Prevention Representative
Consolidated Solutions Group
Livingston, Texas, USA
Languages: English

My name is Curt Sheldon and I am the father of 5 (3 grown) but, currently only raising my son; who is the youngest; by myself. I am trying to make a living by myself due to the lack of jobs in my area. Two years ago I lost my house of 16 yrs. because I could not find anyone to help. Now, I am on a mission to help anyone facing a foreclosure. I do not want to sell you anything nor buy your house. I work for a referral company aimed at finding a solution to your possible foreclosure. Go to my website and help you for free.

MY FAMILY WANTS THEIR HOME BACK

I went through some financial and health problems and I lost our house to foreclosure.I am praying there is help for me and my family with this situation. I have had my job for almost 12 years now and earn prettygood money.Please somebody that can relate to my problem please reply.

desperate and need help

I am married with 2 kids, I was a dedicated and hard worker, never depended on anyone or asked anyone for help.  I was hurt on the job and am now fully disabled.  My husband can't make enough with out me working to keep up our house and bills.  I receive nothing for my disability, and won't.  I am begging for a miracle, before my debt and our bills put us out on the street.  I never thought it would come to this, but who does?  If there is anyone out there who can help in any way, please do so. Its terrible when you have to chose between food and utlities.

ftrucker
Here since: Mar 10, 2008
Male, 51
Civil service
Opp, Alabama
Languages: English
I need help to get out of foreclosure

Hello to all who read this...I have recently had my hours cut at work and been forced to transfer to a farther location.  I have had some recent set backs that have put me in the hole and am now facing foreclosure on my home.  I NEED HELP...My credit scores are low and prevent me from refinancing to pull equity out so I am in facing a downward spiral situation.  I have contacted an attorney who specializes in mediation with your mortgage company but initially the fee is $1500.00 of which I do not have.  We live in a creative day and age so I am turning to the internet for help hoping to find someone who has a kind and generous heart.  If you have experience with this type of situation and can offer advice, if you are willing to loan the money or possibly donate the money---I would more than appreciate it.  This is my first home, I have put alot of sweat into fixing it up as it was a disaster when I purchased it---I can't loose it...PLEASE HELP!

Housing grants?

I am unemployed but am receiving benifits.  I am looking for a program that will help me pay my mortgage payments until I can find a job.  Does such a thing exist?  I am desperate, the bank is threating foreclosure.

Thank you in advance,

V

HOPELESS and at a complete loss. Am i ever going to live a life again? .Can anyone help me?
Hi my name is Paulette and I am not sure why I am even writing this, I guess I need to talk about what I've gone through, but i am so humiliated I would like to explain why my home is in foreclosure and how I lost my happy comfortable life because I cared about someone else ...but if there is anyone out there who has any compassion and the ability to help I would do anything in my power to repay your kindness. Not just financially...anything from cleaning your home to repairing your pc. I don't want to make this  story long but what happened to me started with one mistake 3 yrs ago and has cost me  everything. I had a good job as a supervisor at a  doctor's office and owned my 3rd home by the age 27. I remodeled the previous 2 with some help from friends to be able to get a nicer home. 1 month after i bought this house i caught my husband cheating on me and filed for divorce. The house was in my name only because he did not contribute to the down payment/remodeling or furnishing of the houses and he had bad credit. But I had a beautiful home in a great neighborhood and I was thrilled. But I had a $1200 mtg and was only making about 30k a year at that time and a car payment. I got a raise...and used my savings to pay off my car because i wanted to keep my house. 2yrs later i got a job as a manager of a neurology practice and was making about 15k more so i was able to make the house pmt easily...(i was always frugal with everything else)Approx 3yrs I worked there and was approached by a physician i had met in the past and was offered 55k to manage her ophthalmology practice.(The duties she expected from me were far less and so were the hours for more pay so I accepted. This is what changed my life forever. I gave my notice and my boss was shocked.  She wrote me an email that evening and stated she was going to be lost without me there and even though she never said it she appreciated all of the extra effort I had put in to fix many problems they had collecting insurance and correcting all of the legal compliance issues.  We often butted heads because she was oblivious to all of the laws that had passed with privacy and data transmission security that was now required. I worked 7 days a week for he first 1 1/2 there just fixing problems. Anyway...she ended the email asking me if i would reconsider and offered me a raise and said she had no idea I ever thought of leaving and if I was unhappy about something there she wanted to know. We had gotten very close over that time and I really did care and felt overwhelming guilt for doubting she appreciated anything I ever did.. I just couldn't quit on her after she said that...she rarely admitted having feelings let alone needing anyone so I really thought she cared as well. And I really did like my job so I decided to stay.
 3 days later i just arrived at the office and for the first time in my life I had a seizure, lost consciousness and fell straight backwards  and fractured my skull. I was taken to the hospital and all i remember was being very confused and then very scared because  i was terrified at what had happened.  They wanted to keep me overnight for observation due to a severe concussion and the 17 staples holding the back of my scalp together..but I was so panicked i just wanted to go home.
I was told that i couldn't go to sleep for more than 2hrs at a time and someone needed to watch me overnight and wake me up.They were afraid i had swelling of my brain. It was hard to think straight too..everything just in a fog..couldn't be logical anyway. My boss came to the hospital(it was her day off) and she drove me home after many objections .whe wanted me to stay overnight so I told her my best friend was on his way to stay with me otherwise she insisted that she would stay...I just wanted to be alone . Myfriend was actually on a trip to new york and i didnt want to tell my family so. I called him up and he was upset that I was alone so he stayed up all night to call me every 2hrs to make sure i was ok.  I was very dizzywhen I got home and was having trouble focusing so just laid in bed with my puppy and cried myself to sleep..  About 2am Haley(my pup) woke me up she was very agitated at something she heard...she never barked at  any noise outside and usually very calm so i was a bit nervous but i figured maybe it was just a racoon or something...It never crossed my mind that someone was trying to break in. She just kept  running from the bedroom to the living room.and kitchen .like she couldnt tell where the noise was coming from and then whimpering...she heard something.. and then so did i..sounded like metal being scraped...i tried to walk to the living room to see what it was and i was so dizzy i couldn't.  Then I heard it outside my bedroom window..and I was scared because i couldn't run so i tried to dial 911 and  couldn't focus on cell phone and i was really in a panic ..then my bedroom window went flying up and i just started  screaming  "What in the fuck are you doing..who the hell is there?" the window went slamming shut and he took off. I have never been so afraid in my life....ever..or felt  that helpless. When i first separated from my husband an overprotective friend left a lead pipe under my the bed he said i should have just in case of an emergency and i used to laugh..I can assure you if i hadn't had a concussion with a fractured skull i would have waited for his head to come through that window and he would have been the one with a fractured skull when i got done with him..i was in such shock and so afraid after he left i just couldnt stop crying.  The next day I told my neighbor about it and he went nuts .when i told him i didnt call the police..his son in law was a local detective he called them and they came immediately.The moron who tried to break in left 2 complete hand prints on the outside of the window when he shut it. Good thing I didn't wash the outside ones too often  lol. It took 6mos for them to get the fingerprint match back from whereever they send them to so I spent the next 6 months living in fear of my neighbor's son who was a known troublemaker in the neighborhood I was younger than most of the neighbors and  I got along with him fine. However the detective had previously arrested him for a breakin and he seemed very sure it was him again. I always had my car parked in the driveway when i was home but because of the seizure i had to leave it at work.. obviously he thought i was not home. I have never gotten over that fear..and to this day..I am still afraid to have my windows open at night .I had a ranch home and still do..But mostly I am angry that he took away that complete peaceI had ..my home was my comfort zone.I was happy there .no one should have to be afraid in their own home.  They questioned him and the detective told him they had clear prints..and asked him point blank.."are they going to be matched to you...?  You may as well confess because if they are yours...there is no way out.  Sure enough he admitted it...he told the detective he was drunk and high and thought i wasnt home and he needed money for more drugs so he was going to rob me. I was beyond livid when heard that...but his poor parents were so humiliated they couldnt face anyone for a long time...Then my life fell apart... I returned to work only 2 days later and my boss  was being very cold and distant and i didn't know why. 1 week later on Friday morning i was getting ready to walk out the door for work and apparently had another seizure.  I awoke on my dining room floor about 2hrs later and called her completely scared.  She told me to call 911 and go to the hospital and I just panicked again and stayed home all day. She called the hospital and found out i didn't go and was upset with me.  I went to work on Monday morning she was sitting in my office and asked me to sit down.  She said I am terminating your employment and here is 2 weeks of severance pay. I was flabbergasted..i asked her why and she just said that she felt betrayed by me for giving her notice 2 weeks prior and couldn't trust me any longer.  If i wasn't in such shock i probably would have slapped her..so i left and spent that entire day in tears.  I had refinanced my home a few months before that to pay off credit card debt that i had acquired when i had been earning less and now had a mortgage of $1700(property tax went up that same year).  So I gave up a great job with an excellent salary..because she asked me to..she left me with no income, a huge mortgage and no health insurance..what if i had another seizure...i would have to have tests and treatment and i also was not legally allowed to drive for 6months as well.Ok..if that's not enough to sink me into depression..it get's worse. I became so depressed I had trouble forcing myself to go on interviews..now i realized i was seriously depressed...but after 3 months of collection calls they started to foreclose on my house..i found a job within a month..Started my new position on Feb 27th began to feel better and was sure I could pull myself out of this....13 days later on March 11i got a call from my neighbor at 11 am telling me i needed to get home now..my house was on fire and it had already spread from the back of the house through the roof. All i could think about was my baby..Haley..and I was afraid to ask her....I had adopted her the year before  she was the only thing i cared about..I asked if she had gotten my dog out and she told me she had died from smoke inhalation..My heart broke that day...I didn't care about anything else i had lost..but why her..she was the only thing I had to go home to. She got me through those last few months..just because she was so attached to me...The way she died..it was not fair..She saved me that night...who knows what he would have done if I was asleep or unable to move.  I would have never heard that guy crawling through my window...if she hadn't awoken me. I had more emotional distress that I could take...and I don't really remember the next few months..except for major things.  Everything in my house was gone..all my clothes..i had no home..my dog was in a garbage bag in the garage and I just sat there in shock..the firefighters started asking me if i was in foreclosure and stating the were going to check for accelerants...they were basically accusing me of starting the fire but even worse of killing my Haley..and I just lost it at that point..I was hysterically crying and screaming at them...how dare you..get the f*** out of my house...test whatever u f**** want and waste your ttime and money...i didn't start my home on fire and if i had i wouldn't have killed the only thing in my life that i loved. I walked outside and didn't know where to go..what to do...i had no money..couldn't even go to a hotel..so I just got in car and drove around for hours...I sincerely didnt know what to do or where to go.. my sister came to get me...but i just wanted to be alone..I just  sobbed..uncontrollably..the next few hours..all i wanted was Haley back..didn't care if i lived in a box..i was angry at God  and would just scream  why her?? of all things to do to me why her..and that's when i wasn't sure if there was a god anymore..my mother said to my..."god only gives someone as much as they can bear" and i was so upset i yelled at her...If that was true..then  we wouldn't have so many people committing suicide now would we?  They couldn't take it anymore and neither could I..i really couldn't..i had no home to go to and it was in foreclosure..i lost my new job because i had missed so many days...they really did try but they were very far behind and it was a business decision...and think i spent the next 3 months in sitting in my temporary house alone.i barely remember that time..just going through the house inventory...trying to remember what i had and thinking about it made it worse. I would wake up in the middle of the night thinking hoping..this was a dream i was going to wake up from. So anyway..i had lived off my credit cards the previous 6 months and didnt even care what i spent...I bought myself stuff just to fill a viod and didnt even worry about repayment because I had decided to sell my and use the equity to pay off all the bills and buy a smaller home. So I continued to do so for a few more months.Well eventually...they cut u off..lol  All my life i had perfect credit..i had a credit score of 834 when i was 26 and had owned 3houses and never used my credit cards..I had platinum visas with a 25,000 limit . And here i am now yrs later I had no job...my credit was ruined and my home was in foreclosure..i was so desperate I thought about changing my name and moving out of the state..i was completely humiliated. Obviously the foreclosure was postponed due to the fire and my insurance had put me in temporary housing but i still had to pay the mortgage which i couldn't.  I was given 2000 emergency money for immediate needs from the insurance and received 20k check about a month later..(that was just partial payment for my items..we were still pricing and doing the inventory. I took that check and deposited it was told it would take 2 weeks to clear the funds due to the amount...i begged them to call the insurance company as well as the bank it was from to verify..i told her  i lost everything..i had no clothes and was losing my house and auto ins had to be paid...she finally agreed to do call then next day and so I wrote all my checks...14k to the attorneys that were now handling the foreclosure and my car ins. payment was already 9days late i had only 5days before they would cancel the policy so I thought it was all ok...well it wasn't ok..i had a call that same week from an office i had interviewed at a few months prior and they fired the person they hired and asked me if i was still interested.  I told them i just had the fire so i did want the job but i would need some flexible time the first month or so till i straightened out the inventory of my belongings..found a contractor..and decided on what to rebuild the interior with.etc  He said no problem...(ya right)within 3 weeks a couple of his laziest long term employees in the office i worked with complained daily if i left an hour early or had a longer lunch to deal with this and he decided he couldn't take their complaining and he was really sorry but he had to let me go...What happened to me after this...is where I just gave up...I can't hope dream or even think about a future anymore because I can't go through another loss again...and I can't even convince myself I will ever be happy again. I left there in tears and was crying so hard i rear ended 2 people trying to drive home....it wasn't a bad crash or anything but i had a truck and smashed the bumpers pretty good...truthfully i didn't even care that much...the insurance co already told me after the house was rebuilt they would not be renewing my policy..so i cost them a bit more..I get a call about a week later from an insurance agent stating to me that they called my insurance and my policy was canceled a month prior to that. My bank apparently decided to not clear those funds immediately and what i still cant believe is they returned those checks marked NON Sufficient funds...That's when i completely lost all sadness and just got filled with rage..i went to the bank screaming at them ...how could you bounce my 100 insurance check when I have 20k dollars in my account..She stated that she called Chase Bank in New York and they couldn't verify the funds due to their policies. It was a God dam check from Metropolitan Life a major insurance company so it was easy enough to call them to verify that they wrote me the check.I know some insurance companies have not paid claims however Met life was a nationwide insurer of homes/auto/life and in the 7yrs that i had been insured with them..i don't recall a single news  report or have ever heard of them bouncing insurance payments...And at the very least  you could have held my checks till it cleared  How dare they mark them NSF when i have 20k in there..i was livid..So i withdrew the entire 20k since they hadn't pd anything out. I demanded  a logical explanation as to how something could be NSF even though a check hadn't cleared yet..and all they kept saying was...it was NSF because those funds were not yet available. The manager said she couldn't call Met life to verify since they were not the bank..even though they issued the check in the first place. And i told her that she didn't even have the decency to call me..she knew my situation..So i withdrew all of the money except for 20 bucks..I assumed all of the checks i wrote were bounced but a few other payments i had written checks for the w prior to that...utilities, phone, i paid my past due with Comed $400 and $300 gas.had not cleared yet..and guess what.. they cleared those checks with no money in the account and paid them.Apparently no money  is more acceptable than a 20k insurance check so they can charge me with $33 NSF per check and then $60 in overdraft fees and $10 a day the account was negative. I received my statement that month stating I was negative $1700..i went to that bank and told that manager where she could stick that statement because they cost me thousands of dollars...I was being sued by 2 auto  ins companies..and fined by the state for no insurance and had my license suspended. I couldn't reinstate my license until i started to pay restitution to the insurance companies. And after all of this..i still had some hope left in me that i was going to find another job and be able to keep my house...well i did find work but not for another month and a half so my house would go back into foreclosure in 45 more days..
I wasn't making enough to cover that large of a mortgage...I also spent the bulk of the insurance money getting my house out of foreclosure...and had to buy at the very least a new computer to keep up with the legal changes and and some clothes to go to work in....well i had decided already i was going to sell it and get out of debt but it was not rebuilt by June as they had promised...i couldn't move back in until august..so i was back in foreclosure   i owed friends and family several thousand just to keep my cell phone on and to pay my insurance and put gas in my car..that was truly the lowest point in my entire life other than losing my puppy..i lost all hope of ever pulling out of debt...credit collections called me 60-70 times a day..i just stopped answering my phone and  locked myself in my house...I started working at a radiation oncology clinic..I have always loved my job..never wanted to work in any other field...i loved working with the patients and they like me as well...but i couldn't do it anymore...i couldn't take the stress..i used to love to go out of my way to reassure and make patients as comfortable as possible  and I lost the ability to do it..i just didn't have the desire to..it was even worse then..knowing i couldn't do the job i used to love and i hated my life...i ended up doing the one thing i swore i would never do ..i had to file bankruptcy...i wanted to die. I couldn't get a credit card so if i didn't have 5 dollars to put gas in my car i had to beg for money...i had days when i didn't have money to eat..and ran out of gas on the road..i went from working since i was 13yrs old and taking care of myself..my father passed away when i was 3 and mom is disabled...and buying a home at the age of 22 to being 35 years old..and i couldn't take care of myself..i lost everything i had spent 17 yrs working for..i never vacationed..i never bought a new car..and only bought myself clothing  etc..when it was on sale to get to where i was...and I lost it all..and without credit...i cant get it back either...so I didn't know what to do with my self and i took a job leasing cars for an independent dealer....hence my situation at present..apparently he had not been paying off customer loans/trade ins and then selling them as well so US bank and gmac have filed federal fraud charges against him and we lost all of our business...He kept this situation private and just kept saying that the banks were not approving our customers for financing...well...after my bankruptcy my mother did not want me to pay rent...and neither did i so she applied for a loan and i got a condo...i will be going into foreclosure in march officially..because i haven't earned any money the last 2 months...and i have no where else to go...oh..almost forgot..my car failed emissions too and i couldn't afford to fix it so they suspended my license again too....and com ed left me a message this morning that my electricity will be disconnected on march 10 if i didn't make a payment.....i am at a complete loss as to what to do....i went through desparate last month and now am hopeless again...if i sell the condo..i will have no place to live and the mortgage is close to what rent would be anyway...and that's if i could even find someone to rent to me after they do a credit check.....someone please tell me what to do...and for anyone else out there in a desparate situation..i hope you take some comfort in the fact..that you're not me...I hope everyone on here in need of help finds a guardian angel.  I don't have the will to keep going anymore..please give me some advice....even if it's to just give up and jump off a bridge..I can't lose my home again...Please help... thank you  for listening..

Paulette

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dah15
Here since: Sep 28, 2006
38
Nurse
Pennsylvania, USA
Languages: English
Jennat
Here since: Jun 13, 2007
Female, 38
Foreclosure Prevention Specialist
California, USA

 

 

People who need help getting out of foreclosure please contact me!

 

 

 

dazeebug
Here since: Mar 27, 2007
Female, 31
Miss
Antioch, California, USA
Languages: English

Hello.  I'm not here asking for money from anyone,  just information.  Due to the passing of my cousin, I've inherited her daughter to raise.  She gets $600 a month from Social Security.  What I need is real information on how to get grants so that I can provide for her.  I lost my job (due to my own doing) and there's no unemployment for me to file for.  I think I need to go back to school and get a marketable career but I need to find the funds to do that.  I've gotten behind on my bills and had damaged my credit so I don't qualify for loans.  Anyone know how to get a grant?  A real grant that could provide me with some relief?

 

 

gigglesponderosa
Here since: Feb 14, 2008
Female, 30
unemployed
Languages: english

hi i am new to this site and i hope someone out there can help my family.i currently am living with my 82 year old grandmother and her mortgage is behind 1,967.00 due by feb. 29th 2008 and it is already feb.20th 2008. if we cannot come up with this money they are going to foreclose on her house and she has been living hear for over 50 yrs. i seriously don't want that to happen. i was helping her with the bills until my doctor put me out of work in april 2007 and has not yet let me return. so i have no income to help her.but i wish i could or someone out there can. i am also expecting my first child in 3 weeks and do not have any thing for my unborn child. we have had to use agencies in the past for the other bills . but there is no agency here to help pay mortgages. and other family members of ours say they do not have the money to help. so if there is anyone out there that can help me and my grandmother out so we will not be homeless please leave a comment on my page and it will be greatly appreciated by all means.  

 

may god bless everyone!!!

p.s. we only have 9 days until foreclosure . 

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Father of five needs help
Father of five hurt my back in a job accident five months ago.  I am currently trying to save my home which is in forclosure.  Not sure what to do.  Dont know how this works but I need help with paying the last five months mortgage plus an additional 2000 in late fees.  Please help in anyway possible.   Thank You .
lfphotoham
Here since: Jan 29, 2008
Male, 40
Disabled
Remlap, AL
Languages: English

A little background information. I am 40, almost 41 years old, married with two beautiful daughters ages 8 and 5 and disabled since April 2001. I receive Social Security Disability but we all know that it does not come close to a regular pay check. Before I got sick, my wife and I were both working and our combined income was close to $85K per year. I began getting sick in 1999 with acid reflux or GERD. I went through every drug on the market and using each above the recommended maximum dosage with little or no relief. When it began eating away at the lining of my esophagus to the point I was developing holes in the lower portion near the point where it connects to the stomach and spilling into my lungs so badly that they thought I had developed asthma, their only other option for me was a surgical procedure called fundoplication. This procedure takes the upper portion of the stomach and and wrap it around the esophagus to tighten the valve to prevent the acid from coming back up and to cover the holes. It was supposed to be a laproscopic procedure where I had it done on one day, spend the night in the hospital and go home the next morning. My maximum time off work was to be two weeks. I actually left the hospital on the day I was supposed to return to work. When I kind of came to on the first day after having the laproscopic procedure go so badly that I had to be opened up the full length of my abdomin so that they could try to fix what they did that almost killed me plus I was in intensive care. The next day, they did a test where I drank some awful tasting mess so they could check for any leaks in my stomach or anything. Guess what, they stated that they found leaks and back into the operating room I went where they took everything they did the day before apart and did it all again. This time when I woke up, again in intensive care, I was on a ventolator for a week. They took the thin lining that is between your organs and your skin to keep then from growing to each other to wrap my stomach and seal off the 3 or 4 places that it tore open during the laproscopic surgery. During the first, laproscopic, surgery, in addition to my stomach tearing open in 3 places, my liver was cut/damaged to the point that the gave me at least 4 units of blood. I haven't been able to work since then. I have constant diarrhea, abdominal pain which is increased when I eat anything at all, on a scale of 1 to 10, I stay around 8 or 9 all the time. I also have a partial small bowel obstruction that will eventually have to be surgically fixed. The obstruction(s) are caused from the extreme amount of scar tissue that I have in my abdomin which is why they don't want to operate again until they absolutely have to. I have been admitted to the hospital 12 times in just the past 3 years and have already had to have surgery to correct a blockage in my colon. My small intestines, colon and I don't know what else is attached to my skin where the lining was removed. I cannot lift anything more than 5 to 7 pounds, pull, strain, climb, crawl  nor stand, sit or lye down for more than about an hour and a half at a time because of the pain. I also have areas that are close to herniating which will also cause another surgical procedure. When they admit me for a blockage, I spend a week there with a tube down my nose (NG Tube), in my stomach connected to a suction pump to pull all of that stuff back out and clear the blockage, for then anyway. One, I cannot even stand to think about any other surgery and two, the doctors don't want to do it either.  In addition to all of that, and I left some things out, I have degenerative disk disease in my back, my spine has lost it's curve at the end where the tail bone is. Also, I have to sleep with a CPAP machine because of sleep apneia and have to take medicine during the day because I also have narcolepsy. Dealing with all of this has caused depression, anxiety and post traumatic stress disorder from the surgery. I still and always will deal with these health issues and mental stress from now on. Because of all of my problems, it's obvious that my wife had to leave her job to care for my and our children so we have been trying to make it on Social Security Disability which is getting harder and harder every day. We have already gone through our savings and 401(k)'s to survive and keep our home and a vehicle. Our credit is shot because we have had the 2 cars that we had when this all happened repossessed. Also, all of the other credit we had then, fell behind and pretty much totally destroyed our credit. We are behind one house payment and the mortgage company is a pain to deal with and absolutely refuse to offer any assistance at all. I am still trying to pay some on my hospital co-payments that are now pushing a total of close to $10K and I never know from day to day when I may have to go back. Plus, like everyone else, I have the normal power, phone, cable, water, trash pickup, car payment, car insurance, homeowners insurance, food and school things for our girls. We also heat and cook using propane gas. We have been without propane for 95% of the winter and we are out now which means we heat with small electric heaters and cook on a hot plate, microwave or small toaster oven. Right this moment, we have a total of maybe $5 to last two more weeks and it's about to drive us crazy. We can't cook, heat nor watch TV because the cable has been turned off until I can get money to pay them in two weeks. I am the type of person who hates to have to ask others for help. I would rather help others than to ask for help but I don't have much of a choice right now. Our families, our church and our friends have been great during all of this but they all have their own bills and families to take care of also. Any help would greatly be appreciated! May God bless you!

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Me and my Kids one boy8 and an infant girl 1 month are evicted as of 6/07 we have no help we were denied welfare help! Can any one referr us to get housing!
How much more can i handle b4 i lose it?

hi I am a single female, am an artist and started a retail business with nothing and have kept it going for 6 yrs. but the past 2 have the MOST unimaginable. So many bad events I actually feel cursed. Being alone with a house and a business and trying to transform the A.D.D. artist INTO a business woman is a lot for person.My house needed LOTS of work 2 years ago and I was TOTALLY ripped off by 5 separate contractors--I intend on pressing charges but that too costs money and I need to prioritize. SINCE I knew I could not trust any worker alone in my house, and my home needed (STILL needs) normal amenities I was offered help from a friend to keep an eye on the shop while I babysat the workers.....WELLLLLL she needed babysitting as well some deposits mysteriously vanished (as well as a bank stealing from me---a WHOLE other ball of wax.. SERIOUSLY could write a book, but was done a terrible injustice and have no means to fight them)...well in the course of all this....a competition (franchised) store with much more money opened LESS than 2 miles from my store....wah wah wah.....bottom line, gas has been off since May....house at that time went into foreclosure, but I pulled a rabbit out of my hat and saved it...but NOW the workout payments are DOUBLE what they were and I was struggling with previous!...the water JUST got turned back on after a 2 week drought.... D.H.S. is LESS than helpful...I have been waiting for 3 weeks for the prior approved funds to be re-approved all by a simple piece of paper that was SUPPOSED to have been mailed to me and cannot get another-- the whole system is confusing to a non-systemer,--I JUST WANT TO CRY!!!! the system needs a SERIOUS restructure!...paid taxes since I was 16 and cannot get a straight answer and was humiliated by the 'social' workers---OH and not having a CAR (yeah U guessed it a drunk ran a red and I totaled my reliable transportation....$ paid the bank....hit and run of course too so no recourse)......ALL this while my credit is being destroyed trying to keep everyone happy and not doing that good of a job!...there is SOOO much more that has happened it is truly UNBELIEVABLE...and every time someone says....'well it can't get any worse'....IT DOES!...since the heat was off in May (didn't miss it in the summer heat and Tide has cold water wash!!!)...anyhow all of the heating funds through the assistance programs were depleted,  so no heating dollars exist because I supposedly make too much money..HA!...DTE is requesting a large deposit and reconnection fee on top of my charges which doubles the amount...It is really cold and I am really scared---pipes freezing, or ME....recently as well, my store was broken into and $ and inventory stolen...I have no one to turn to for help....I was/am soo proud of my store and know that it has a future as soon as I can get back out of this hole and afford the advertising /new merchandise(also pay the vendors that I currently owe)/ and catch up the back rent. My semi-understanding landlord, HAS served eviction papers ONLY to validate that money IS owed....ANY assistance or suggestions would be incredible as life's hole gets deeper and deeper---I DO NOT want to file bankruptcy---HONESTLY this is only a small portion of my cursedness...it is amazing I have not had a full blown meltdown!....I want to get my home finished so i have a peaceful environment and can get myself ORGANIZED, i KNOW this will help tremendously!...I THANK YOU in advance!

 I ALSO HAVE NO HEALTH / DENTAL INSURANCE and NEED IT!!


 a breakdown of problems

$3000 for a reliable car/plates/registration

$2350/month mortgage payment due to foreclosure fees/workout repayment plan (total mortgage $127,000)

$3600 due in delinquent and current property taxes

$3000 due in past due business location rent to the landlord

$3500 due in delinquent sales taxes from business

$3000 owed to friends who helped me save my house

$2000 in way overdue student loan

$6000 due to vendors for store inventory--thankfully they are understanding

$1000 due to re-connect my natural gas utility

$1000 due to nextel/sprint for unpaid balance on turned off cell phone (there are several disputes, I am tired of going around and around...do not have the time OR the energy)

$700 due in outstanding advertising debt

$300 behind on my phone bill---AND they left my BUSINESS INFO
OUT of the yellow pages...AND listed it as an UNPUBLISHED

$5000 in credit card debt--most is for business and the remodeling which is STILL not finished

$500 outstanding bad checks-with THEIR collection fees

$500 past due VET bill

NEWLY SINGLE MOM OF 3 IN TROUBLE

My name is Barbara . I live in Delaware.  I have been married for 18 years to what I thought was a wonderful man. Three years ago he was diagnosed as bipolar with psychotic episodes and placed on Soc Security Disability. In March of this year his father passed away after a long illness and he stopped taking his bipolar and psychotic meds.  What a mistake!! He became violent with me and was taken out of the home by police and is now encarcerated and has been since May.  He is awaiting trial on a felony charge involving trying to kill me.  The courts have ordered a complete mental health evaluation on him before trial is even scheduled. Needless to say since he is incarcerated on a felony charge he is not entitled to his social security disability so there is NO income coming in from him at all.  I am working full time and trying to raise 3 kids ages 13, 6, and 3 alone.  We had filed for Ch 13 bankruptcy at the time of his diagnosis and now I am stuck paying for the post petition payments as well as current mortgage payments and household expenses.  I cannot afford to do this and my home will be in foreclosure very soon. I NEED HELP. I have filed for divorce and property division but that can take some time to resolve.  I need the help to keep my family afloat until all this can be resolved.  CAN ANYONE HELP ME??? Feel free to contact me at b.delaney@hotmail.com

 

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