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Here since: Aug 8, 2005
Female, 59
disabled grandmother
supplemental security income
Shadyhills, Florida, USA
Languages: english
I was in a lot of foster homes myself growing up along with my other siblings. All 8 of us were put in Shawn Acres orphanage in Dayton Ohio.Thats why i realy need a government grant to get my own home, I dont want my grandchildren to go through the same thing i did.
ELJ
Here since: May 28, 2007
Female, 58
Salesfloor Team Member
VOGV/Isaac Tremaine Brown Memorial Fund
Detroit, Michigan, USA
Languages: English

My organization VOGV (Victims of Gun Violence) was founded in 2003 after the tragic death of my oldest son.  He was murdered by multiple gun shot wounds and unto this day, no one has been held accountable for his death.  He left five children and unfortunately no insurance policy.  VOGV is designed to aid families with grief issues and some financial support towards funerals and homegoing services.  I wrote a book and had it published to try and help his children and our family in general.  However, because of a lack of funds, I cannot get the book sales generated properly.  I only sold a few here and there.  I work in retail and only get a few hours a day, a few days a week.  I am struggling because of my age and it is hard to get hired in high paying jobs.  I am the string that holds my family together since my son's death and with a little help from the right someone, I could make money on my book sales and donations to the Memorial Fund that could help my family.  I have 19 grandchildren alltogether and I can't even afford to buy them dittley on their birthdays and Holidays.  So I am sending out a plea for an angel of finance to please help us so that we can help ourselves.

KristiS
Here since: Jul 9, 2007
Female, 36
Business Owner
Minden, Louisiana, USA
Languages: English

I am 36 years old and have found myself in quite a mess.  My husband and I own and operate a small business in the town that we live in.  We have done well, but due to some errors that I have made while being away from the office caring for my Grandmother with Alzheimer's  we are in need of help to get our finances reorganized. 

We are believers in God and know that he will get us through this time in our life.  I feel he lead me to this site for help and where I one day can help someone in the same situation I am in now.  If you are unable to help financially a prayer would be much appreciated.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and may God Bless you and your family.

Comment: I knew there were people in...
Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "Home page of ELJ"

I knew there were people in the world who would love to help other people - I had just not really run into any. SO I am so thrilled that perhaps someone who may read my story may be interested in helping a family to mend one if not more broken bridges. I in turn am willing and would love to help someone else. If you even think I can do something for you, please let me know. Also, if you are wounded or grieving from the lost of a loved one or spiritually wounded, please visit my website www.vogv.bravehost.com and I hope something I say there will ease your pain.

I need help to reorganize my financial status.

Hi,

My name is Kristi and I need to make a fresh financial start.  Last year my Grandmother lived with my husband and me for the last eight months of her life.  She had Alzheimer's and we were her care givers.  During this time, I lost touch with things and let some really important things slip my mind.  We own a small business in the town that we live in and when she moved in with us I started working from home.  I made some errors financially that has now left us in a real bind that I can not seem to get us out of.  My husband and I work hard and I am trying desperately to reorganize so we can begin our life again without the huge strain of financial distress that I have caused my family by letting myself get out of touch with reality while my Grandmother was with us.  Any help would be appreciated and once I get back on my feet, I vow to continue visiting this site helping others in my position.  I am in need of $8700.00 to catch up and get my head above the water so I can get back on track.  If financial help is not available then pray will be much appreciated.

Thank you for the time you took to read this.  God says that I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me.  I feel that he lead me to this site.  God Bless you all.

Kristi

Grandmother raising five grandchildren

Greetings,

I gave up everything over five years ago......job, home etc. to protect my grandchilren who were being abused and neglected.  It was only four at the time and now I have the baby, she has been with me since she was 6mths old and she is 23 mths old now.  Now, after much therapy etc.  I am trying to move to California.  I have a house there and was promised $5000 to cover my move from a Producer that I was writing a stageplay for.  He was not being truthful and now it is near the time for me to move and I do not have the money for plane tickets, for the rest of my deposit and the truck.  The least amount that would help me is $1600 to cover the deposit on the home.  I already have the house and may loose it if I dont take care of this quick.  I just started a job from home so I should be able to gather the rest.  I am praying to move on 11/01/06.  ANY HELP WOULD BE A BLESSING TO US.  I am willing to pay it back after the 1st of the year. 

Twana

Grandparents raising grandchildren
Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "Home page of Dolly Mae"

Dolly Mae,
 I don't know where you are located, but in NY we have what is called a PINS petition. The link below can explain it in detail. I do know that the child has to be between 7-16 and the petition is filed through the courts.

 I am also including a link to TOUGH LOVE. You haven't gone into detail, but it seems to me that this kid is more than most people could handle. I know he is your grandson and you love him, but if something isn't done now, you could lose him permanently. My best advice would be to stop rescuing this child, make him responsible for his own actions. It will hurt, but ultimately, it may be the one thing that saves him.

I would also suggest counseling for you as well. Seek out a counselor near to you that is familiar with this type of situation - grandparents raising grandchildren. Perhaps they would have more suggestions and resources that would be useful.

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